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Had mine yesterday wasn't as bad I thought, I will be over before you know it!!

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you will do just fine Nessa! Best of luck! See you on the other side!

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Don't cry, but I understand your nervous. Its a major life change. This time for the better!!! I love what a FLORIDAYS said, "see you on the other side". It will feel so good to be in control. That is what my band gave to me. You will be ok, and each day is a journey. Take it one day at a time and enjoy your new chapter in life. It can only get better for you. Imagine a year from now, we all know how fast time goes, just think postive and your dream will be yours. Keep us posted and never be afraid to spill your feelings. That is what we are here for. To support one another. AS we all know ones who don't struggle with weight don't understand. The day I know I was discriminated against for a job I felt like I was going shribble up and die. I will not let my weight define who I am. I know who I am, I am a good person, good wife, good mom, a good friend and try the best I can. Thats all we can ask for ourselves. I was blessed to have the lap band and insurance paid for it. I look forward to hearing from you. Will be thinking of you in the days ahead. I JUST LOVE THIS SITE....

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thank you all for your major support! you guys are all so nice!

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You will be fine, best wishes and Happy New Year and new you!

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Don't cry from being nervous - if anything, cry for being so excited to start your new life! This whole process is life changing. Enjoy it! You will be fine!

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I agree with all of the above. Let us know how you are doing!

Happy New Year!

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I applaud your courage on taking this step (getting the band) be diligent from the start!

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