male only man problems

ksill18 · June 9, 2009

dump him...he comes back to you when his options dry up and knows getting with you is a sure thing. Do not get a loan with this guy and move on. at 24 your life is starting and with being banded soon a BETTER LIFE is starting for you. Wise up and take everyone's advise here...all good things you should listen to. Good luck!!!!!

charlimc · June 10, 2009

we are all sorted now thank you

charlimc · June 10, 2009

i do thank you for everyones advise but i am not going to dump my partner over this when it hasnt been happening for very long, this was a bump in a road that has been good. I came in here to try and understand him, but we have talked and now i know. Something i would also like to state is that we have broken up a couple times because i left him, because i have been scared to commit. I am a mother and my child father left when she was 3 months old and the man that i am with now has been more than a wonderful person in my daughters life , hhe has raised his son on his own as his sons mother did a runner wen his son was 3.

i know it is easy to say leave him when u are not in it and dnt see what we have gone through, like i said overall things were wonderful and this was just a bump in the road that he found difficult to talk to me about, but now that he has it is alot better.

plain · June 11, 2009

i do thank you for everyones advise but i am not going to dump my partner over this when it hasnt been happening for very long, this was a bump in a road that has been good. I came in here to try and understand him, but we have talked and now i know. Something i would also like to state is that we have broken up a couple times because i left him, because i have been scared to commit. I am a mother and my child father left when she was 3 months old and the man that i am with now has been more than a wonderful person in my daughters life , hhe has raised his son on his own as his sons mother did a runner wen his son was 3.
i know it is easy to say leave him when u are not in it and dnt see what we have gone through, like i said overall things were wonderful and this was just a bump in the road that he found difficult to talk to me about, but now that he has it is alot better.

That's fantastic that things are all sorted out now, but respectfully......when you ask for advice, you're going to get advice, whether it's what you want to hear or not.