Okay, so I was babysitting for a neighbor of mine. She called to see how the kids were doing. They were sleeping but I asked her if she had anything for a stuffed up nose. I was thinking she might have some sort of decongestant but I didn't see any in the medicine cabinet.

She told me next to her bed, on the night stand, there was a bottle of nose spray and I could use that. ( I washed the tip of the bottle with alcohol) Also on the night stand, was a tube of lube that said it was for anal sex.

It got me wondering why women do this. I could see why a guy would want to do it. I would suppose it's tighter and feels good for him. But does it feel good for her? I can't see it feeling any different than being horribly constipated.

I wish I had never seen that tube of lube!

Why did we let this thread die out? Keep the stories coming

Geez ,this isn't a porno site! Why don't you talk about how the Yankees didn't win AL East!

Geez ,this isn't a porno site! Why don't you talk about how the Yankees didn't win AL East!

Cause I could care less about the Yankees I'm a Mets fan. Kinda harsh don't you think?

:tt2:My bad! I thought I you were Yankees fan! Well now discuss who well be the Mets new coach!

ewww hate sports. lets get back 2 previous topic,,,it was funny

When I was much younger my first husband insisted (and he was very persuasive) and was rough. I had to have reconstructive surgery years later.

Then a few years ago, I would allow my current husband to do this and found that with the right partner, tons of lube, and amazing relaxation skills, it is possible to have mind-blowing orgasms this way. He could reach places this way that were imposible to reach vaginally without a curved realistic dildo / vibrator... or an impossibly long male organ (such as my first husband's).

Unfortunately, with a male organ that size you might find breathing difficult during sex and when I was pregnant with my two children with him, my cervix was pushed wayyy interior. My OB/Gyn's had lots of comments while they were buried elbow deep trying to feel my cervix.

Your experience will vary. If you choose to try this use LOTS of WATER-BASED LUBE. AVOID PETROLEUM JELLY or other petroleum products.

Also, know that the rectum and intestine are very fragile and tear easily... which could cause you to bleed out very quickly. So, GO SLOW and if it hurts and isn't eased by relaxing even more, then STOP.

If you bleed afterwards, more than just a little, SEEK MEDICAL HELP.

Don't put anything up your bum that is larger than a regular sized penis... and even then maybe you shouldn't.

Your experience WILL vary from anyone else's...

Enough of the TMI regarding this from me.

And why is there a man in the powder Room??????

I like it, love it even. It really has to be done "correctly" otherwise you will be one of those people who says it's hurts, no way, blah blah blah. It does reach the Gspot easier and yes, being taboo adds to the fun. You have to be able to relax and in no way does it feel like passing a bowel movement. To say that is to say the vagina would feel like giving birth! The first time I tried it I hated it, but then I looked into it and now I crave it

I tried it for the first time with my first BF and it was horrible... tried it again with the same BF when I was more excited and down for anything and it was great! I currently participate in this with my current BF of about 4 years, and even though I like it, if he goes in and tries without me really wanting it, it hurts and its painful... But if I'm fully aroused and it's wet enough down there then I might just "make" or manuver him in there myself on purpose... I LOVE it! I know it's taboo and I hate admitting to people that I actually like it but I do! I agree with previous posters that it takes relaxtion and patience...

i personally enjoy anal. My first time was by accident lol and now i love it except when i get woke up by anal

Ok, besides the "tighter feeling" my guy likes it because he knows there is no way I can get knocked up.

That's why my very first time was anal--there was no way I wanted to end up pregnant! My dear husband (who's a bit straight laced) still finds it hard to believe: "You lost your virginity that way?!"

BTW: I liked it And...I like it when the doctor has to stick his finger up my bum as part of the yearly exam (he says,"here comes the worst part"--little does he know that I like it! )

My husband is an "only for out, not for in" guy. Bum-mer (wink)

I'm not a girl... but I'll give a run-down on my experience.

My first experience was in South America, and I wasn't real sure what she was asking me to do. For a minute I still wasn't sure what was going on after she moved me. Stupid fish-bowl of beer. It really wasn't a memorable experience...

Next experience was when I was about 25. I was dating an 19 yr old college cheerleader and it was her idea. "Don't you want to?" me "Sure, I guess" No lube involved other than natural stuff (we were doggy style and I was in the "other" spot). She cried as I pushed to go in. I don't think there really was any penetration. That pretty much ended the night. I never cared to try again. I've never really been interested in putting my ding-a-ling in there. However, I always have a tendency to poke around back there. It's like it's staring at me. Almost daring me to do something to it.

Anyhow, about 10 years later I met the best woman in the world. She brought it up while I was in VA on a trip to see a friend early in the relationship while we were talking dirty on the phone. As if dirty phone talk wasn't odd enough, right? That said, about a month later we were laying on our sides and she nuzzled up to my junk with her starfish. She slowly worked her way down on it. It took a while to get all the way on, but when she was done.... WOW!

We've got a baby now, so I don't get the brown eye as much as I used to. It does still happen, though!

Funny how the good things slow down after the ring is on the finger. I guess all of those stories are true!

If you are interested in this but don't see how it could work, I recommend getting a few different kind of toys. The vibrating ones are really cool. It is true that a man who is bigger is much more uncomfortable. I was very surprised when my first husband tried this and I ended up liking it a lot. He was long and more narrow The trick is to get the woman turned on and then go very slowly. Start with fingers, then maybe two fingers, a couple gradually larger toys and lots of lubricant. If you open your mind and have the right partner, you could be in for the suprise of your life. My current BF is too big so we just use toys.

Hope this helps some of you!!!

Hmmm... the toy idea doesn't always work. Fingers, yes! Go slowly, yes YES! But for me, I've never been able to get into toys there. They're just too hard and uncomfortable. My honey is well hung (9" and thick) and I was admittedly terrified at the idea of taking him there at first, although I had had a lot of pleasurable experiences in the past with less endowed guys. But even after 3 years, it still takes me a long while to work up to it with him and I have never like toys as substitutes or preparation, even though I enjoy then in the more usual place. One thing that my love does, that makes all the difference for me, is to hold himself still and ready and encourage ME to take all the control over how far and how quickly I ease into it. It can sometimes take a really long time before I relax enough, but when I do, it's oh boy! TAKE ME NOW!!

Probably TMI for most people, but I just wanted to put it out there that toys aren't always the answer. They work for some, but if they don't work for you, that doesn't mean that the whole idea won't work...

Did we date the same guy? lol I dated a guy that was really into disgusting stuff. He liked to put....Nope too gross even for here.

OMG i think the three of us dated the same guy because i know exactly what u are talking about. he would get mad too, glad he's gone.

Thanks. I would sure like to know how it's possible to have an orgasm that way. It makes no sense to me. It's not that I would want to try to have an orgasm that way, but the whole thing just mystifies me.

Its possible because the clitoris is forked. One side of the fork runs around each side of the vagina to the back. It is very pleasurable. the reason women may find it painful is because u have to start small and build up to full size. also you have to use A LOT of lube

OMG!~We had tried anal for years and years. (We have been married 18 years.) Last month it just got easier and it is absolutely AMAZING now!! I crave it daily! I'm on a mission to get other women to love it, too. My friends think I'm crazy, but their husband's appreciate it. lol