djmixon

Dec 30, 2010. I had got lost about 60 before surgery. Now sitting about 25 below that after gaining some weight due to mindless eating. started at 370 Surgery at 310 Currently at 272.25 Since True Results shut down, my extra-large band with a little over 9.25 ccs is a mite too full and no one bothers with that anymore. Now it is all me. Which makes of it somewhat more difficult. Especially when it wakes me up in the wee hours of the morning because my saliva got stuck. usa

So why did you get banded? Did your spouse, significant other or other relative suggest it to you? If so, how did they do it? What did they say? Did you decide to do it because of health issues? How are you doing? Did you do it to be more attractive to your spouse, significant other, etd? And has it worked?

I lost 10 pounds after the first week and was actually under 300! I was overjoyed... then over the following 3 weeks I gained all that back. Now, I won't even go near a scale because it upsets me so. I have trouble getting to the gym because I share a car and I have trouble feeling up to going to the gym when I do have the car because I have fibro among other things. I spoke to a counselor and she told me that I needed a fill... plain and simple. Each person is different. I wonder sometimes if those who lose so much at first actually lose Water weight during that time. I take diuretics because I retain at the drop of a hat and my heart doctor felt it was necessary. Maybe that is why I am slower to lose... maybe it is because with all the bad weather I can't seem to get out of my coccoon. I just want to lose weight and am tired of being hungry all the time. I need a fill and will get my first one in a week and a half or so...... I am doing what I can until then..........

I'm in League City and WOULD LOVE to meet up and share stories, trials and tribulations and how everyone got through them. I was banded 12/30/10 so I am just a baby in this journey... I kind of feel like there should be 30 meetings in 30 days, like AA, and then ongoing meetings that can be attended without warning... like AA.

My girls are no longer as perky as they once were... so my bra band does rub against a couple of my incisions. I don't wear underwire bras and haven't for a long time so I wear soft (as in cotton) bras. I am 13 days out and have only put one on a few times, each time better than the time before. So, I am guessing that like the scars I have from some chest tubes (from 2003), they will desensitize over time. Didn't your surgeon or hospital staff warn you about it? I know my surgeon's nurse has been a screaming you-know-what and completely non-helpful. Without ever meeting me she hated me. Oh well, if I have to change doctors because of her, then so be it. Houston is a very large place. Be well, my friends!

Sweetie, despite what the pornos tell men, there isn't really that much that comes out.... so, if you are worried, hold off drinking or eating anything for an hour or so and you will be fine... I feel certain.

If you have a battered women's shelter or thrift shop in your area..... donate.... donate.... donate.... nevermind the potential tax break., do some good for the sake of it. I was a battered woman when I was young and alone with two babies. I would have loved to have had a shelter to have helped me.... When I left, I left everything. I was just lucky that he left shortly after that and left everything in the apartment... so I got it all back. So, DONATE IT ALL!!!!! I know I am going to.

I reach in from the front and wipe front to the back. Hubby has to wiggle around and reach from the back, but he has other things to contend with. And I want a carwash now.......

I didn't cheat on my first husband, but we got together because his previous wife set us up... she left and asked me to "take care of him"... so I did and except for my first two children was sorry for it. He never was in their lives much after I escaped the abusive marriage. My second intended was a louse and cheated on me before we married, even though I was pregnant with our child, which he denied until she was 20. My second husband was a huge mistake. My maid of honor tried to set me up on a blind date a weekend before. Then bailed on me that week and I had to rearrange the set up. I knew I should not have married the dolt, but I did anyway. He cheated then I cheated. Difference was that I married my best friend who was the man I cheated with. All the while, my husband thought I was cheating with someone else... who was always trying to seduce me. Boy could he kiss...... My third and last husband is my best friend. I cannot now think of any reason I would cheat on him. Nor can I honestly say I think he will ever cheat on me. His previous wife cheated on him openly and claimed she was cheating with the man who kept trying to seduce me.... not sure she actually did bed him. The seducer actually got a surprise on his birthday while my current husband (who was my best friend and married at the time) and I were taking a break to see if what we had was real. I also cheated with a man who was married to a woman who openly cheated as well... he stayed for his kids and she kept getting pregnant just to keep him. He was quite unhappy and remains so. After my current husband and I decided we were to be together, that was it. We are each other's lovers and only lovers. Don't give up... there are a lot of frogs... just keep kissing them and you will eventually find your prince. Just remember to wear protection.

Find a Goodwill or other thrift shop - I always give to them. Then there are garage sales - look for ones in medium to upper income areas. Fashion Bug, Lane Bryant and Avenue are all awesome and not terribly expensive. Then there is Plato's Closet... they give you credit for clothes you bring in and you can use that credit for clothes they have in stock that others have traded in. ORRRRR we could do what people who have two different sized feet and organize a swap....

Do you have an FSA as of 1/2011? And is your doctor or his office willing to write those prescriptions? We have an FSA with my husband's employer and found that under ObamaCare / Health Care Reform rules starting this year any OTC (over the counter) items must have a prescription in order to get any reimbursement. I contacted my surgeon's bariatric coordinator (his surgical nurse) by email and asked for those prescriptions. I have had half a dozen emails either asking for information or complaining about the amount of information I gave in response to her request for more information or telling me it is inappropriate to ask for such things and then finally agreeing to giving me prescriptions; but just for the Protein powder/shakes, chewable Vitamins, and liquid pain killers... but nothing else related to the overall change in the form of meds I am on (over 30), which I had no real gas with... since other doctors were responsible for those prescriptions and otc items. So, do you have an FSA, did you know abou the OTC changes, and is your doctor's office cooperative?

Certainly keep an eye on it. I am not a doctor, but I had awful periods. They would seriously last 3 weeks, maybe more (quite often more). The doctor put me on Provera and told me birth control pills and a progesterone-containing intrauterine device (IUD) can help decrease heavy bleeding. I had a DNC done but after a week was back ot my "normal" period. He suggested an endometrial ablation which is basically taking a laser to the uterine lining and cauterizing it. I asked what else he had up his sleeve and he suggested a hysterectomy. I asked how soon we could schedule it. When he did the surgery, they found I had adenomyosis. Basically, it is endometriosis that grows in the uterus wall. My uterus was huge because of these things. I passed clots like you wouldn't believe - basily tea cup sized - and had all my "adult" life. High school was bad enough, but I would pass out at the drop of a hat and had raging migraines. I was 27 when they did my hysterectomy. My cervix had pre-cancerous cells, but now I am clean. I had my three kids early in life and am pretty happy now at 45 with them grown and me just starting the change. Grandkids are a blessing and I still have energy to play. My point is, if you are not happy with your doctor and his/her treatment then fire them and get another. It is your body and there is no reason you should suffer like this.

He Grasped me firmly but gently just above my elbow and guided me into a room, his room. Then he quietly shut the door and we were alone. He approached me soundlessly, from behind, and spoke in a low, reassuring voice close to my ear. "Just relax." Without warning, he reached down and I felt his strong, calloused hands start at my ankles, gently probing, and moving upward along my calves slowly but steadily. My breath caught in my throat. I knew I should be afraid, but somehow I didn't care. His touch was so experienced, so sure. When his hands moved up onto my thighs, I gave a slight shudder, and partly closed my eyes. My pulse was pounding. I felt his knowing fingers caress my abdomen, my ribcage.. And then, as he cupped my firm, full breasts in his hands, I inhaled sharply. Probing, searching, knowing what he wanted, he brought his hands to my shoulders, slid them down my tingling spine and into my panties. Although I knew nothing about this man, I felt oddly trusting and expectant. This is a man, I thought. A man used to taking charge. A man not used to taking "No" for an answer. A man who would tell me what he wanted. A man who would look into my soul and say ... "Okay Mam," said a voice, "All done." My eyes snapped open and he was standing in front of me, smiling, holding out my purse. "You can board your flight now."

My port is between my sternum and my belly button. Fortunately, my girls haven't slipped that far, although they drop farther each year. I only wear soft cup (no underwire) bras and then only cotton ones. But I couldn't stand underwires even when I was a kid. They damage bust tissue, so everyone should get into a good, well-fitted soft cup bra. Be Well

When I was much younger my first husband insisted (and he was very persuasive) and was rough. I had to have reconstructive surgery years later. Then a few years ago, I would allow my current husband to do this and found that with the right partner, tons of lube, and amazing relaxation skills, it is possible to have mind-blowing orgasms this way. He could reach places this way that were imposible to reach vaginally without a curved realistic dildo / vibrator... or an impossibly long male organ (such as my first husband's). Unfortunately, with a male organ that size you might find breathing difficult during sex and when I was pregnant with my two children with him, my cervix was pushed wayyy interior. My OB/Gyn's had lots of comments while they were buried elbow deep trying to feel my cervix. Your experience will vary. If you choose to try this use LOTS of WATER-BASED LUBE. AVOID PETROLEUM JELLY or other petroleum products. Also, know that the rectum and intestine are very fragile and tear easily... which could cause you to bleed out very quickly. So, GO SLOW and if it hurts and isn't eased by relaxing even more, then STOP. If you bleed afterwards, more than just a little, SEEK MEDICAL HELP. Don't put anything up your bum that is larger than a regular sized penis... and even then maybe you shouldn't. Your experience WILL vary from anyone else's... Enough of the TMI regarding this from me. And why is there a man in the powder Room??????