Okay, so I was babysitting for a neighbor of mine. She called to see how the kids were doing. They were sleeping but I asked her if she had anything for a stuffed up nose. I was thinking she might have some sort of decongestant but I didn't see any in the medicine cabinet.

She told me next to her bed, on the night stand, there was a bottle of nose spray and I could use that. ( I washed the tip of the bottle with alcohol) Also on the night stand, was a tube of lube that said it was for anal sex.

It got me wondering why women do this. I could see why a guy would want to do it. I would suppose it's tighter and feels good for him. But does it feel good for her? I can't see it feeling any different than being horribly constipated.

I wish I had never seen that tube of lube!

This post makes me sick! Everytime I check the new post and see this listed it makes me sick. some thing you should just not talk about whether you are doing them or not. Just my opinion!

If something bothers me, I just don't read it!!

If a TV show bothers me, I just don't watch it!!

If anything bothers me, I find something else to do!!! There are many other subjects here to read maybe you should try that!!! Best wishes!!

Ok I never get red faced so here goes.:biggrin: I enjoy doing this to woman along with fingers I am gentle and they have always loved it. due to the nerve endings in the anus this type of sex actually gives woman a different type of orgasm. I let a gf use a finger and felt nothing but she had small fingers. So I let her use a vibrator and it felt weird and I said ok stop. Turns out my anus was bleeding. I never let this happen again needless to say. I hope this helps any curious woman.

Lol!! Rofl!

My husbands penis will not fit, but I love when he uses two fingers. One in my vagina and the other in the anus. I orgasm more this way than any other time. The only bad part is after just a minute or two I fully climax and am done. He usually doesnt mind this too much though. He may not get to have sex with me but he gets oral instead. Hope I wasnt too graphic.

Ok I never get red faced so here goes.:cursing: I enjoy doing this to woman along with fingers I am gentle and they have always loved it. due to the nerve endings in the anus this type of sex actually gives woman a different type of orgasm. I let a gf use a finger and felt nothing but she had small fingers. So I let her use a vibrator and it felt weird and I said ok stop. Turns out my anus was bleeding. I never let this happen again needless to say. I hope this helps any curious woman.

My apologies, Bushidomaster. My "lol rofl" was in response to the woman getting her knickers in a knot over a topic that she doesn't need to read if she doesn't want to, not in response to your post. I hadn't seen the extra posts past hers and by the time I realised my error, it was too late to go back and edit in the quote to make it more clear.

Hey no worries I don't get offended ever. I can laugh at my anus bleeding I actually did after it happened she was freaking out and I was like oh well I now know I would never have gay sex.:cursing:

bhahahaha this thread cracks me! The title to the tread should have been an indicator about what was going on in here, don't want to read it? stop opening it:thumbup:

HOLY BUTT SEX BATMAN!!! GET THAT THING AWAY FROM THERE!!!!!:thumbup::eek::thumbup:

Lol!!!! Rofl!!!

I voted yea...it is def a mood thing! And def a lube job needed, LOL...but its hot. BUT like everything else to each his own...some people dont use toys and think their the devil spawn, lol so its all in what one likes...:tongue_smilie:

Amazingly enough, there seem to be a lot of women who really like it. It really surprised me when I started this poll.

I do you like anal sex??, Im still trying to figure out how this web site went from lapband support to liking anal sex, This is funny as hell.

I'm one of those weird likers, but it is only a very occasional thing. It has to be in the doggy-style position, and I have my vibrator in the other hole. I'm one of those who likes to feel double stuffed (sorry for TMI).

There's a couple of things you have to do to make it at least partially enjoyable (or bearable):

1. always have your partner use a condom.

2. use a lot, a LOT of lubricant.

3. have him go in extreeeeemely slow. Tell him that he has to listen to your commands, and if he doesn't listen and act accordingly it is OVER. YOU are in control.

4. it helps to breathe out.

while he slowly millimeters himself in your body will get used to being stretched. when he finally inserts himself the entire way in then you can have him slowly (by your commands) start moving in and out a little bit, but not alllll the way out and back in again. once you get used to the feeling of his penis inside of you and the slow movements it isn't too bad. the longer you do it the faster he can thrust and that makes a happy dh!

However, at the end you are stuck with the feeling you can't control your bowels and that lasts for a good day or two - NOT fun!!

Hope this helps :smile2: (I've done EVERYTHING!)

Oh yeah I forgot....my boyfriend (now dh) and I were having anal sex, I was on top, and he goes and tells me, for the very first time, that he LOVES ME!! I was flabbergasted! I replied, you had to tell me THAT at this particular moment???!!!

I do you like anal sex??, Im still trying to figure out how this web site went from LAP-BAND® support to liking anal sex, This is funny as hell.

Lonnielove, lapbandtalk is a community of soon-to-be, hoping-to-be and lapbanded people who come together to share experiences on their lapband journey. At the same time, this particular thread is in a section geared towards any "off the wall" topic.

As we all have something in common, we don't always want to just talk about lapband issues..