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What kind of swallowing are you talking about?

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All the stores I've ever bought anything from (all 2 of them lol) opened the packages and installed batteries to make sure that they worked, which is a good idea since you can't take that stuff back!:lol:

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Oral...BJ...Swallowing the juice of love...lol

sorry I had to...lol too many romance novels lol

So anyone have issues during TOM with swallowing?

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Salty Salsa :P :lovechoc:;) lol love juice

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I was told to have my bf to eat a lot of pineapple and it would change the taste. I will report back after this experiment.

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dont let them eat a lot of meat before hand...will be extra salta...fruits and veggies do the trick for sweet taste.

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No, I don't believe it. One of my closest friends is a man that I have known for decades. I stay with him and his wife when I travel to their side of the country, we have holidayed together, he and I have stayed close for over 30 years...no sex, no interest in having sex. We are two people who like each other, indeed, love each other as close friends. Another good friend is male, lives several thousands of miles away, but we talk every week for hours about everything under the sun, if business brings me to his part of the country we spend days together, and with or without his wife of 40 years, we travel together, party together etc.

In both cases, we have talked about every being something other than close friends; in both cases we have (mutually) said no. DH knows both of them, and in no way feels at all threatened by them. I've known and loved them longer than I have DH. We are friends...a rare and valuable commodity.

Best Friend Guy and I have been friends for over 15 years, and did much of what you describe above. It was only recently that he and I hooked up, and its been that one time only, with not a mention of it since. So I am looking at it like a momentary lack of judgment and we are back to being best friends only. Not one with benefits....

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Sorry, I couldnt help reading this thread.But,what I want to know is,Why did it make me so horny?

lol because your a guy and we women are talking frankly about sex and liking it. lol Never fails to make a guy horny. lol

Or it could be because your reading that therir are women out their that like BJ's lol:thumbup:

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I had a really good friend for about 3 years. We went to the movies and dinner together frequently. When I told him I was dating someone, he told me he "no longer has time to socialize"

My bf is going to be out of town in the beginning of Oct for a week. I will call him then and ask if "he can fit me in his schedule"

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What a bizarre response. He was only a friend for 3 years but because you started dating someone, he dumped you as a friend? Was he looking into getting you to join his celibacy for life group or something? Seems a really strange response unless he thought you guys were dating and was just taking it very, very slow in the physical intimacy area.

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Sorry, I couldnt help reading this thread.But,what I want to know is,Why did it make me so horny?

See that is so cool. You didn't go to a porn site, and certainly didn't see anything, but used your imagination. Isn't it great when you can "see"women, on the internet be so outgoing in the talk of sex and talking about what they enjoy. :thumbup:

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I will call him then and ask if "he can fit me in his schedule"

Why its obvious he thought of you in a romantic way> I see no reason to call, you will only be sending him mixed messages.

I can see it now.

“Oh hello my boyfriend is out of town would you like to go do something”

This is how he will hear it very bad message to be sending.

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