My husband refuses to drop me off or pick me up from the hospital. He disagrees with my decision to have surgery. I expected this but now need a plan. For those who have a spouse like mine or kept your surgery a secret, how did you arrange for hospital pick-up/ drop-off? Uber? Swear a friend to secrecy?

Get friend or another family to take you to surgery., Your top Priority is you and your health, my boyfriend was so so about it but I did it anyway got the sleeve but now issue 5 years late on with no education class get upgrade new md and Education class now other different Surgery., my case is something different because my not major obese I got down on my own being gym rat and crazy lose weight diets ,
my healthy is my things I don’t quit or give up class of 2021

Get an uber

I’m also so sorry your going through this. I went through something similar and you must stay strong and focused on your own needs right now. I had the surgery two years ago. Every day my husband checks my clothes and fights with me about what I wear etc. I am living my best life right now. I finally love to dress for work. But the best part is I’m healthy and vibrant again. So I say the hell with him. I’m sure you can find someone to get you there. Good luck and feel free to reach out if you need encouragement