Pre Surgery Anxiety - Need Some Positive Support

[TreeMystic 33]

Hi, I have my surgery on April 3rd, On the pre opt diet it's hard but ill survive So I've had 5 major surgeries in my life chest cracked open and others. I tried the sleep back in May but had scar tissues from a lap band and he wasn't able to do it said come back in 6 weeks, well i thought i'm not ready for round 2 just yet . Tries to lose on my own again, fail 15 lbs then thats it. So I found a new surgeon, anyways now I'm track to have it. Well , i guess everyone thinks you been through many surgeries it should be a breeze. NOT! I think i have anxiety because i know all that goes into it recovery and pain. I've been reading all the forums and seeing others experiences , allot not to positive to be frank , some are . Anyways looking for little inspiration and support today.

Edited March 31, 2019 by TreeMystic

[TreeMystic 33]

Hum okay then

Edited April 1, 2019 by TreeMystic

[jazzyj13 44]

Of course it’s going to be stressful, but soooooo worth it!!! When I get anxious I just think of what my life will look like a year from now and the confidence it will bring me! Also, don’t be afraid to ask for meds to deal with anxiety. It’s helpful!

[jazzyj13 44]

Also, seeing a medical therapist is always a great idea, anxious or not!

[KCgirl061 1,529]

I think people tend to go to the forums to look for support when they need it, but when things are going well they don't think to include in their every day activities. So I don't think it shows a realistic view of just how many successful WLS people there are.

I struggle with my food choices but otherwise I haven't had any complications regarding my surgery. I hope things go well for you as well!

[Avery's Mom 315]

my experience has been way different from most of the posts I read here, mostly because of my surgeons approach to pain management, diet, and follow-up. I had a pain pump for 4 days, this alleviated all but the soreness in getting in and out of bed. I have had no nausea, sliming or vomiting, except once when I overate. I have lost 50lbs post op. I am 4 months out.

please don't be discouraged. we all have our stresses and issues.

[TreeMystic 33]

Thank you everyone for the kind words and support

[domi 237]

Just remember this is your journey. Try not to compare yourself to others. You will have ups and downs as you progress. Just take one day at a time and know this is a tool. There are lots of people on this site to support you. Hang in there and know you got this.

[Kris77 1,507]

Good luck tomorrow!! Hope for the best for you on your journey! Let us know how it goes