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2 of my children were Spring/Summer so nice to bring them home in just a light blanket instead of the blankets, snowsuit etc in Ohio in Janurary and 15 degrees. And I was a day after Christmas baby, yes Boxing Day my Commonwealth cousins, all we get in the USA is Christmas returns, discounted Christmas cards and wrap for next year. And nobody wants to come to your birthday party that day! I have had less than one handful true birthday parties. I'm sorry if I sound cranky,but I'm 72 and unless I throw my,own. I don't get one. And if you do people look at you as though you are greedy and manipulative.
One year I was feeling so sad about the state of affairs I threw a birthday party for Jesus. Made a cake and sang Happy Birthday to him. I even had a couple boy friends break up with me in December so they wouldn't have to buy me gifts. One wanted to reconcile in Mid-January but,i saw through that. Told him if I wasn't good enough over the holidays don't come slinking back now! 👎😰👎

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On 06/15/2018 at 15:41, Frustr8 said:

2 of my children were Spring/Summer so nice to bring them home in just a light blanket instead of the blankets, snowsuit etc in Ohio in Janurary and 15 degrees. And I was a day after Christmas baby, yes Boxing Day my Commonwealth cousins, all we get in the USA is Christmas returns, discounted Christmas cards and wrap for next year. And nobody wants to come to your birthday party that day! I have had less than one handful true birthday parties. I'm sorry if I sound cranky,but I'm 72 and unless I throw my,own. I don't get one. And if you do people look at you as though you are greedy and manipulative.

One year I was feeling so sad about the state of affairs I threw a birthday party for Jesus. Made a cake and sang Happy Birthday to him. I even had a couple boy friends break up with me in December so they wouldn't have to buy me gifts. One wanted to reconcile in Mid-January but,i saw through that. Told him if I wasn't good enough over the holidays don't come slinking back now! 👎😰👎
Holiday babies always get robbed in that department sadly. My mom is a twin and their birthday is 4 days before Christmas. People tend to Celebrate my aunt but not mom. But she did say that growing up they got the short end of the stick birthday wise. I do have a little cousin with the same birthday as you but his mom tries to make it special every year. And nothing wrong with celebrating yourself. My birthdays are disappointing every year. I just try to at least feel pretty and maybe eat something that I really like, lol

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Does anyone have the link to the surgery date list? I can't find it?

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On 06/15/2018 at 18:19, Chrisb428 said:



Does anyone have the link to the surgery date list? I can't find it?


I think it’s somewhere between pages 18 and 20

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On 06/15/2018 at 18:19, Chrisb428 said:



Does anyone have the link to the surgery date list? I can't find it?


Page 19

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6 minutes ago, ALFxRNY said:
31 minutes ago, Chrisb428 said:


Does anyone have the link to the surgery date list? I can't find it?

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How convenient that 19 does come between 18&20.... My sarcastic side couldn't resist....lol. Thank you!!! 😋

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On 06/15/2018 at 18:52, Chrisb428 said:





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How convenient that 19 does come between 18&20.... My sarcastic side couldn't resist....lol. Thank you!!! 😋


lol, I laughed at that too. I mean I was pretty spot on 😂 You’re welcome

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Well I’m annoyed ☹️. Something has come up that I have to go to in my 10 day liquid diet and drs office said I MUST do 10 days, so looks like I’m going to have to change dates. Also hubby is trying to get me to wait till September. I just want this over with. I’m stress eating over everything that is going on and now I want to eat the fridge. Ahhgg this sucks. I’m going to bed so I’m far away from the kitchen lol

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You eat the fridge you get Fridgidaire- itis and they won't even give you a mehanical soft diet, just put you under a stiff electromagnet and,pull the steel out. Do you suppose you could convince you were,iron deficient and just HAD to eat the fridge? Maybe worth the try!😝

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That’s funny, will keep that idea with me. Keep myself occupied and my mouthy teenager in his place! Is September in the summer cos it looks like I’ll have to change the date to Aug/Sept.?

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Tail end but we will let you in under the wire, Autumn doesn't usually start until September 21st or so. You can be our designated Indian Summer inductee!🌲

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On 6/15/2018 at 6:23 AM, ElanBri said:

I got the call yesterday!

Surgery date is August 14th!:D

Woo Hoo - I'm the 13th! :)

On 6/15/2018 at 8:55 AM, Jolexis said:

Hi everyone! I’m in month 5 of preop and hoping to get surgery by the end of summer. I still have a few requirements left like my psych appt in 2 weeks, abd ultrasound and labs next week and another surgery class next week. Plus I’m waiting for gastroenterology to call me to make an EGD appointment. (I’m thinking of calling them instead -the squeaky wheel gets the grease right?)

I haven’t let myself get excited yet because of all the hoops to jump through but I feel like I’m finally able to see a tiny light at the end of the tunnel!

Welcome to the group!!

On 6/15/2018 at 10:56 AM, yoshi_lover said:

My surgery is going to be this coming Monday June 18. This is my first time on this forum and i’d love to make new friends that I could relate to!

Welcome to you too!!

23 hours ago, Chrisb428 said:

Does anyone have the link to the surgery date list? I can't find it?

It's also always in my signature. :)

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I feel bad because this weekend I ate pretty bad. I have surgery on Wednesday

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I feel bad because this weekend I ate pretty bad. I have surgery on Wednesday
Mine is on Wednesday too! This diet has been hard. I'm ready to be done and on the other side.

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I am getting sleeved on July 30th. I ah w. T psych and dietitian appts. Next week, and endoscopy the we week after. Terrified for this surgery, but also very anxious and excited!

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