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My husband and I both had the RNY - me, 2 1/2 years ago and him 10 months ago. We love each other desparately, but we're feeling sexy and playful. Any other couples out there post gastric bypass who have experience in swinging? No judging, please 🤗

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My wife and I shared the same interest, and ironically, an old church friend of mine (he was actually on the board of elders) invited us to his swing club. It's called GottaSwing. What a fun way to get some exercise! Anyway, every night the group meets, everyone switches partners with everyone else. Many nights there are over 100 people in attendance, so it can get quite exhausting, but it's really a lot of fun. To tell you the truth, it was kind of intimidating at first, but each Friday night begins with a 30-minute beginner's dance lesson. There is always a live band, too!

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Love, love, LOVE your response! The groups we've found are on the internet, Couples Next Door and Swing Lifestyle - warning, do not open these in front of minors or at work ;-) We've tried swing dancing, and it's fun, but no quite as exciting for us :)

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I'm living in a non sophisticated area and a little naive, I guess. I though at first of those big tall swings they have at the State Fair. You get on, then they swing you to the side when they start turning and it's like being,on a kiddie playground on steroids. Duhh i completely disregarded the other 2 kinds.

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... and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that! I rode on one of those just this last summer, now that I can FIT in a swing :lol::D

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Ok depending on the type of swinging like me and my hubby are poly but we don't swing per se we are however looking for other partners

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I'm at goal with loose skin and all and we have a great time in the life. Honestly, I don't like to shed the shirt (usually keep a compression shirt on) and literally have no butt (like rocks in a balloon!) but most people don't judge and we've had a blast since the lbs started dropping. Much more attention! We're on SLS mainly... best site out there.

... to think I ran across this looking for weed related posts for some reason. I'm really in the expresslane to hell!! B)

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I'm dying here trying not to laugh my a$$ off at @gr8ful1 's super innocent reply!

I totally understand the OP's question and than I read that I'm like... WTF? This dude's church friend got them into swinging and there are 100+ swingers? And dance lessons and a live band? Too funny!

My wife bartends and I bounce a few parties for some friends of ours that run a Swingers Event. The groups are always fantastic bunches of people from all sorts of walks of life and shapes and sizes.

I'll have to see if she's got any information on groups out your way @IttyBit

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I totally forgot I started following this thread out of curiosity back in January. And when I got a notification, I was like... what in the world did I have to contribute?! Turns out, I was just a nosey body!

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