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dating beyond your 30s is hard...sometimes people have to lower their standards but they refuse to which makes it harder

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On 11/12/2017 at 7:22 PM, illailla said:

dating beyond your 30s is hard...sometimes people have to lower their standards but they refuse to which makes it harder

I'm not sure I know what you're trying to convey here. Whenever someone has trouble finding a mate, people accuse him or her of being too picky or having too high of a standard. And I'm sure some people are too picky, but sometimes it's just that you haven't met the right person. Sometimes it seems like a miracle when it actually does happen for two people.

I have a preference for certain things in terms of appearance--maybe that's shallow, but I can't imagine having a good relationship without some level of physical attraction. I also have certain parameters--the guy shouldn't be married or involved with another woman! He shouldn't be an alcoholic, a drug user or dealer, unemployed (unless retired or otherwise financially secure). Perhaps the hardest of all, he has to be someone I can talk to comfortably.

Is that too picky? I don't think so, somehow.

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23 minutes ago, XYZXYZXYZ1955 said:

some level of physical attraction ... shouldn't be married or involved ... shouldn't be an alcoholic, a drug user or unemployed ... hardest of all, he has to be someone I can talk to comfortably.

Entirely reasonable.

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