So I'm six months post op I'm down 112lbs!! And I'm having some sex troubles that hopefully someone can help me out with! My fiancé and I have been together 7 years in march and we've always had a great sex life. Ever since surgery and losing all this weight I'm understandably horny all the time, but here's the issue, I can't seem to stay wet or even get wet sometimes. I've never had this issue before. Anyone know why or what I can do about it? Please help!!

There's always classic ky or lube, keep it in bedroom nightstand and see how that works.

Get a silicone based lube. They are awesome! Never sticky or gummy. Our go to is the Wet Platinum, but the last time I was at Walmart they had the other brand.

Our nut has told us that fat cells contain a lot of estrogen. I believe lol, that you have lost a lot of fat cells! Maybe your hormones aren't keeping up. I'm sure they will balance back in time, unless you are premenopausal, and either way, those suggested lubes will help you for now.

So I'm six months post op I'm down 112lbs!! And I'm having some sex troubles that hopefully someone can help me out with! My fiancé and I have been together 7 years in march and we've always had a great sex life. Ever since surgery and losing all this weight I'm understandably horny all the time, but here's the issue, I can't seem to stay wet or even get wet sometimes. I've never had this issue before. Anyone know why or what I can do about it? Please help!!

It's an unfortunate side effect with rapid weight loss. The hormonal levels will stabilize but in the mean time try the KY Liquidbeads.

We use lubricant, I like the one that heats up.

So I have a question. How long post op did you wait to have sex?

I waited 10 days. It was fine. I have to use lubricant anyhow because I had my ovaries out 5 years ago and am on hormone replacement.

It's an unfortunate side effect with rapid weight loss. The hormonal levels will stabilize but in the mean time try the KY Liquidbeads.

Sooo how does this work?

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Sooo how does this work?

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Take two after mealtimes with water?

No, wait... maybe not.

Take two after mealtimes with water?

No, wait... maybe not.

No no...You might be on to something. But wouldn't the wetness stay in the mouth region?

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No no...You might be on to something. But wouldn't the wetness stay in the mouth region?

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This could get very wrong very quickly! As I'm wearing my post-op stockings I'm feeling a bit kinky.

I concur to purchase Wet Platnium..the one that contains silicone. It totally took care of my dryness issues.

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Careful with some of the lubricants you try and use. Some use silicone base as the lubes lubrication, and while that might last longer than water base lubes, it can cause irritation issues. If you're prone to getting yeast infections or you or your partner are allergic to silicone then avoid using these, and instead use the water base lubes. The only down side to them is that they don't have a long lasting affects like the silicon ones do, so If you don't produce natural lubrication, then you'll be reapplying water based lubricants more frequently than their silicone counterparts.

Good luck and happy jack rabbit humpings to you.


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Sooo how does this work?

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The box beads that dissolves once inserted with applicator.

Well this has been a fun thread!!!