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I got sleeved on July3rd . So I'm week post opt . Im looking for anyone who basically want to be there for each other with support and questions that normal people (ones who didn't get surgery) wouldn't understand. I feel like I always do my best when I have motivation and a support team there for me . I made a Instagram account strictly for my sleeve stuff because i didn't really tell anyone i was getting it. I hate when people say its the easy way out because there is nothing easy about this. So i kept it to myself . So if anyone wants to be friends feel free to add or message me . Im 23 from ny , Im really nice lol and I talk to like everyone

My instagram name is crystallmarie_vsg

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I tried to find you on Instagram but I couldn't. My username is weightywonder, feel free to add me.

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I was sleeved on June 21st, so a few weeks before you. Live in NJ and happy to be sleeve friends (if you want a guy's perspective). You can find me on WhatsApp and FB Messenger. Or private message me here for contact info.

-Kurt

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The 'easy way out' huh. Meeting the strict guidelines pre-op wasn't easy. Changing our entire lifestyle and diet wasn't easy. Walking into the operating theatre, seeing the surgical team ready to cut us open, knowing life was about to change permanently and there was no going back, wasn't easy. The pain of recovery and having to learn how to eat again wasn't easy. Dealing with the hormone changes and mental challenges due to changing pretty much everything about the way we live was not easy.

Maybe the next time these people speak up we can ask them when the easy part starts, yeah? Don't ever doubt yourself!

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On ‎7‎/‎19‎/‎2017 at 4:08 PM, AmandaWho said:

Hey I had mine May 31st. And I didn't really tell anyone either! What part of NY? I'm on Long Island!

long island also ! haha small word

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On ‎7‎/‎17‎/‎2017 at 4:32 AM, Etharia said:

I tried to find you on Instagram but I couldn't. My username is weightywonder, feel free to add me.

ill add you ! i deleted my sleeve account so its my normal insta . the name is crystallconrad

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I got sleeved on July3rd . So I'm week post opt . Im looking for anyone who basically want to be there for each other with support and questions that normal people (ones who didn't get surgery) wouldn't understand. I feel like I always do my best when I have motivation and a support team there for me . I made a Instagram account strictly for my sleeve stuff because i didn't really tell anyone i was getting it. I hate when people say its the easy way out because there is nothing easy about this. So i kept it to myself . So if anyone wants to be friends feel free to add or message me . Im 23 from ny , Im really nice lol and I talk to like everyone
My instagram name is crystallmarie_vsg


I was sleeved 7/7. I'd love to be friends! I'm in central NJ. I've barely told anyone except my family and 2 friends. It would be nice to have someone else to talk to who's gone through it. Even my family, as wonderful and supportive as they are, can't quite understand. It's just something you don't truly get unless you've gone through it! =)


Sleeved 7/7/17
5'5 female, 28 years old
HW: 230
SW: 223
CW: 206
GW: 135

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I was sleeved April 6/17 and would love friends!! I am from BC Canada and have Instagram Emileana... I post about all sorts of stuff in my life not just surgery stuff though so don't mind my cat or my son lol

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I was sleeved 7/7. I'd love to be friends! I'm in central NJ. I've barely told anyone except my family and 2 friends. It would be nice to have someone else to talk to who's gone through it. Even my family, as wonderful and supportive as they are, can't quite understand. It's just something you don't truly get unless you've gone through it! =)


Sleeved 7/7/17
5'5 female, 28 years old
HW: 230
SW: 223
CW: 206
GW: 135



Add me on insta !!! Crystallconrad ill message you [emoji4]


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I was sleeved April 6/17 and would love friends!! I am from BC Canada and have Instagram Emileana... I post about all sorts of stuff in my life not just surgery stuff though so don't mind my cat or my son lol

Sent from my SM-G930W8 using BariatricPal mobile app





Ill add you ! My insta is crystallconrad. And same lmfao mine consists of my daughter also lol


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