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Anyone else have mood swings that you can't seem to control? Need advice!



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On 7/6/2017 at 9:53 AM, Navigating the Wilderness said:

1 month after surgery:

Boss: I don't understand why we can't just make things work on this project.

Me: I don't understand why you can't get what I'm saying through your fuckin' head.

Boss: I don't need to put up with this from you, and he walked away.

Me, Loud enough for all to hear: Bye Felicia!

Spent 2 months in the doghouse for that one.

Oh. Mah. Gawd. I spewed coffee all over the keyboard and almost landed a double fontaine that even an East Germany judge would have given at least a 9.9 for degree of difficulty! Hi-LAR-ious!

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On ‎7‎/‎6‎/‎2017 at 9:18 AM, skearbey said:

Hello everyone! I'm new on here. I was sleeved on 6/19/17 and here lately my moods swings are just uncontrollable! I'm happy then crying or mad at the world and for no reason! Can Anyone else relate to this? Am I the only one emoji17.png

I am not quite this unhinged, but I will say that when I get my period or around that time, I am raging b***h. When I do get mad or sad or angry.. its worse than it was previous. I think it has a lot of do with hormones... Hopefully they will line back up for you, and you will get back to your normal self. Good luck!

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I am not quite this unhinged, but I will say that when I get my period or around that time, I am raging b***h. When I do get mad or sad or angry.. its worse than it was previous. I think it has a lot of do with hormones... Hopefully they will line back up for you, and you will get back to your normal self. Good luck!

I cried all day yesterday for no apparent reason. Today I'm fine. It's weird, for sure!


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Last night my husband and I just talked about this. I feel like all my vices were taken from me i can't eat my feelings, drink or smoke. But I'm trying to use exercise as a vice but it's hard.


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When you lose weight all the stuff stored in your fat comes out. It's normal to feel this way for sure. :)

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I'm only 7 days out and I feel really depressed I guess because my relationship with food is over. Breakups are never easy. I keep reading that it gets better though and once I start eating real food I'll feel normal again

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I have been fortunate not to have mood swings post op. I did become quite irate for no reason during the preop phase. I was on Optifast for 2 weeks. I was hangry for most of the 1st week and felt like I could punch people in the throat if they looked at me the wrong way. The only thing that kept me from doing so was that it is illegal....lol.


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