Yes, I said it. I'm 2.5 months out from bypass surgery, I'm down 61.6 lbs. and I get so horny, my sex drive is on steroids at 51 years old, I feel like I did in my 20's. I've already worn my wife out and she is scared to touch me. I'm not trying to brag, as a big guy I've always been large down below and my wife can't seem to handle me now since my weight loss. Erection problems used to be my issue. I now get hard if the wind blows and for no reason. I can't even walk around in the stores because my erection shows through what ever I'm wearing. What's a man to do during these hard (no pun intended) times? Does anyone else have the issue I'm having after they had surgery? I need suggestions, thanks in advance.

On 6/21/2017 at 0:33 PM, Dtrain84 said:

Yes, I said it. I'm 2.5 months out from bypass surgery, I'm down 61.6 lbs. and I get so horny, my sex drive is on steroids at 51 years old, I feel like I did in my 20's. I've already worn my wife out and she is scared to touch me. I'm not trying to brag, as a big guy I've always been large down below and my wife can't seem to handle me now since my weight loss. Erection problems used to be my issue. I now get hard if the wind blows and for no reason. I can't even walk around in the stores because my erection shows through what ever I'm wearing. What's a man to do during these hard (no pun intended) times? Does anyone else have the issue I'm having after they had surgery? I need suggestions, thanks in advance.

I wish this were a problem that I have. Right now my libido is like -1. I got no desire for sex right now.

I'm coming back to say, that now as I've lost even more. I'm starting to have this problem. The horniness persists throughout the whole dang day. It's so bad

I'd love to see the commercial for the sleeve as a cure for ED, that would be a hoot....lol

Yeah, safe monogamous sex is the only way to go...scary sad chit out there and drug resistant dieases are already here and multiplying fast. Now there is a research job needed - working to mutate vd so it kills itself and can't replicate.

Well, that's kind of a story. I wish you good luck with your issue, OP. Because being hard all the time really is a problem. I imagined myself in your situation. Having boner in the face of the children, for example. God, that's awful. On the other hand, I'm 35 years old and I already had ED problem. A problem opposite to yours, lol. But I've solved it. One of my friends told me how to buy levitra 20 mg generic online and I did it. Now I'm fine. Yet still, I wish you go back to normal.

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I just wanted to say re: STDs - THIS is why you get to know potential partners before having sex with them. Talk openly, honestly, candidly about STD testing and status. Request paperwork from their Dr. Be forthcoming with these as well. Yes it's ok to ask this of potential FWB. You're respecting the sanctity of your health and body as well as theirs. Ask if they have other partners too. USE CONDOMS ANYWAY. If you can't TALK about sex, and sexual health, you shouldn't be having it. Also, don't be a douchebag and f**k up someone's marriage (your own included). Bad karma.

I have heard about this "phenomenon" and all I can say is this: We are currently looking for some gentlemen callers to assist my partner in his upcoming struggle!

As a 600-pound man, I was always horny, and my man couldn't keep up with me...I feel SO bad for him as I start to lose more weight!

Same issues here... Lost weight and now its insane!

I haven’t had surgery yet, but my libido has suffered tremendously. I’m hoping to get it back once the weight is gone.