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Hi everyone I am 23 years old I am a wife and I have an almost 3 year old daughter and I am going through the WLS journey. I meet with my nutritionist tomorrow and that will complete my 6 month weight loss class required from my INS, after that I have a nutrionist group class and a psychological appointment and possibly that will be it until i meet with my surgeon.

I am trying to get feed back on anyone that was as young as me that got the surgery or is on the same boat as me. I guess I can say I'm a bit scared and open to any advice.

FYI this is my first time to this group as well so I am kinda new to this but very much excited!

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Hi everyone I am 23 years old I am a wife and I have an almost 3 year old daughter and I am going through the WLS journey. I meet with my nutritionist tomorrow and that will complete my 6 month weight loss class required from my INS, after that I have a nutrionist group class and a psychological appointment and possibly that will be it until i meet with my surgeon.
I am trying to get feed back on anyone that was as young as me that got the surgery or is on the same boat as me. I guess I can say I'm a bit scared and open to any advice.
FYI this is my first time to this group as well so I am kinda new to this but very much excited!


In 24. My surgeon actually told me this is a great time for me to get the surgery because other than obesity, I don't have any Health problems!


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I'm 22, and I'm 7 weeks post op and If anything I think it's made it easier since I'm on the younger side. Recovery seemed to go well which I was thankful for. My surgeon also said it's a good idea to do it now so you spend more of your overall life as a healthier you. I understand you being nervous cuz its the fear of the unknown but it's the best decision I've made so far and you'll be proud of yourself once the surgery is done and you get to look forward to happier and healthier you! Good luck! [emoji4]


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1 hour ago, shaines9 said:

Hi everyone I am 23 years old I am a wife and I have an almost 3 year old daughter and I am going through the WLS journey.

As a 57 year old mom of 4, I am so jealous that you have the opportunity to have this surgery and get this tool to get healthy and stay healthy. You will avoid all obesity related health problems but even more important YOU will be there for your kids in so many ways. I got too fat to ski, go on hikes and even travel if it involved a lot or walking. I missed part of their lives because of my weight. When I was a young Mom I still could do everything but when I hit 30 it started going downhill. GO FOR IT!

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I'm 23 and almost 8 weeks postop, and the road back has been tough, but I'm grateful to have done this surgery at this age. I haven't developed any long term health problems yet and hopefully the weight loss will prevent them. I'm also young enough that I have a whole life of activity ahead of me that I might not have been able to do with the weight. If you have any questions, post! :)

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In 24. My surgeon actually told me this is a great time for me to get the surgery because other than obesity, I don't have any Health problems!



That's what I have heard as well! Thank you I appreciate it



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I'm 22, and I'm 7 weeks post op and If anything I think it's made it easier since I'm on the younger side. Recovery seemed to go well which I was thankful for. My surgeon also said it's a good idea to do it now so you spend more of your overall life as a healthier you. I understand you being nervous cuz its the fear of the unknown but it's the best decision I've made so far and you'll be proud of yourself once the surgery is done and you get to look forward to happier and healthier you! Good luck! [emoji4]




That's great to hear! Thank you so much I'm so excited to start this journey!



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As a 57 year old mom of 4, I am so jealous that you have the opportunity to have this surgery and get this tool to get healthy and stay healthy. You will avoid all obesity related health problems but even more important YOU will be there for your kids in so many ways. I got too fat to ski, go on hikes and even travel if it involved a lot or walking. I missed part of their lives because of my weight. When I was a young Mom I still could do everything but when I hit 30 it started going downhill. GO FOR IT!

Thank you! I appreciate that feedback! I will continue this journey and continue to stay in touch with this support group if I have any questions



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Im 22, & im 3 days away from my surgery. The most difficult part for my journey was the psychiatrist since he kept pushing and asking if I was sure because of my age. But it all went well at the end. Im also a mommy of 2 . Ages 4 & 5. :)

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