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Hey everyone,

I'm at the 6 month post-op mark and I'm going through the longest stall I've experienced in my journey thus far! I'm not new to stalls, as my body will usually stall for 2 weeks at a time then all of a sudden I'll lose 5 pounds over the course of 2 days, but my weight hasn't changed in over a moth now and I'm feeling incredibly discouraged. My starting weight was 285 before my 3 week liquid only pre-op diet, and I was 265 on the day of surgery. I've been sitting at 205 for the past few weeks, so I've only lost about 60 pounds since my actual surgery date :( My goal weight is 150 which seems like a mile away right now! I've been logging everything I eat on my fitnesspal and I eat around 800 - 900 cals a day, with a goal of no more than 25g of net carbs (I do go over sometimes though, but I don't usually surpass 35g of net carbs). I've been getting all my Protein and Vitamins in most days and I drink about 1.5 - 2L of Water a day. I eat 3 meals and 1-2 Snacks a day. I can definitely eat much more than I could a few weeks ago, and I eat 5-6oz per meal in one sitting (Which feels like a lot to me...I thought I would only be eating 4oz per meal until at least a year post op, but 4oz doesn't fill me up like it used to. Maybe my stomach just healed really fast? Or I have a larger sleeve?). I haven't started exercising yet although I really do want to! I'm just starting to get my strength back since I was prone to some fainting spells and had some really bad weakness/fatigue compounded with anemia and low blood sugar for a while post-op, but it’s slowly getting better. Hoping to start slow doing exercise with some daily walking and running at least once exams are over (I’m a university student) and when the weather gets a little better.

In the meantime though, anything I can do to help break the stall or just ride it out? It’s hard not to feel discouraged because I still feel like I've made no progress when I look in the mirror and when the scale doesn’t move it just makes the bodily dysmorphia that much worse :( Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thank you!

Btw, add me as a friend on myfitnesspal! J http://www.myfitnesspal.com/profile/avatarkorraa

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I'd suggest upping your calories a little bit. Try to get between 1000-1100 a day and see if that helps. 800-900 at the six month mark seems too low. (I'm about 5.5 months post-op, and I've been between 1000-1100 for a couple of months now.)

Good luck!

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I'm at 7mos post op.... Just keep going. Your body is still in shock. I workout at least 4 times a week. Drink more water! Trust the process!!!! I stay at about the same cal intake as you, Protein in close to 100grams a day. In 7months I've lost 110lbs! I'm 6'1. Every Dr has a little different guidelines for post op. Maybe you should call your Dr office and just check in, you'll feel better [emoji3]



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I'm at 7mos post op.... Just keep going. Your body is still in shock. I workout at least 4 times a week. Drink more water! Trust the process!!!! I stay at about the same cal intake as you, Protein in close to 100grams a day. In 7months I've lost 110lbs! I'm 6'1. Every Dr has a little different guidelines for post op. Maybe you should call your Dr office and just check in, you'll feel better [emoji3]







How do you know your body is still in shock?.. sounds strange

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17 hours ago, blizair09 said:

I'd suggest upping your calories a little bit. Try to get between 1000-1100 a day and see if that helps. 800-900 at the six month mark seems too low. (I'm about 5.5 months post-op, and I've been between 1000-1100 for a couple of months now.)

Good luck!

I'm really worried to start upping my calories though, I heard 800 is what we should be aiming for in the weight loss stage and 1000-1200 during maintenance, but my NUT never gave me any calorie guidelines so I'm not too sure. She did tell me I need to eat more during my last follow up, but I'm just really scared my weight loss will be even slower than it is now if I start eating more :( Will upping my calories really help me break the stall? Thanks! :)

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Increase your calories. You should be in the 1000-1200 range at 6 months.

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1 hour ago, avatarkorraa said:

I'm really worried to start upping my calories though, I heard 800 is what we should be aiming for in the weight loss stage and 1000-1200 during maintenance, but my NUT never gave me any calorie guidelines so I'm not too sure. She did tell me I need to eat more during my last follow up, but I'm just really scared my weight loss will be even slower than it is now if I start eating more :( Will upping my calories really help me break the stall? Thanks! :)

You should really talk to your team and formulate a specific plan. 800 calories is really low for six months out.

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1 hour ago, avatarkorraa said:

I'm really worried to start upping my calories though, I heard 800 is what we should be aiming for in the weight loss stage and 1000-1200 during maintenance, but my NUT never gave me any calorie guidelines so I'm not too sure. She did tell me I need to eat more during my last follow up, but I'm just really scared my weight loss will be even slower than it is now if I start eating more :( Will upping my calories really help me break the stall? Thanks! :)

Those kind of calories will lower you metabolism and keep you on low calories for the rest of your life. I eat around 1500 calories at 1.5 years out and I am still losing.

You are not eating enough calories to fuel the workout that you are doing.

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I hit a 5 week plateau at the six month mark as well and upped my calories, Protein, and Water, I've started losing again but it's slower than during the first 6 months. I eat on average 1100 calories a day. Keep at it, you can do this!



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Thank you all so much for the advice! I finally broke my stall today and weighed in at 201 so I'm really excited about that! I think it was just a matter of time but it's hard not to freak out when it happens. I'll try to up my calories from now on a bit as well as the others have suggested!

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Thank you all so much for the advice! I finally broke my stall today and weighed in at 201 so I'm really excited about that! I think it was just a matter of time but it's hard not to freak out when it happens. I'll try to up my calories from now on a bit as well as the others have suggested!

Awesome! Keep it up!



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I'll be six months out next week and I am also eating 700-800 calories. At my office we are supposed to be at 1200 calories at one year and beyond. They said some people get there faster than others. I am losing more slowly now than in the beginning, but I don't see how I can raise my calories because I am supposed to eat three meals and no Snacks. I do have three meals and a Protein Shake because I couldn't meet my Protein goal without the extra boost of the shake.

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