Ok everything is going great but I'm scared to have sex, I'm not on birth control and my fiancé hates condoms.... So to be honest he ummm yeah pulls out... There I said it! lol but I guess we're all grown so this should not offend anyone if so sorry kindly stroll pass. But for others what did you do about sex? Also how soon after surgery did you have sex?

Yep. Every time I got into trouble my dad would say that he should've pulled out faster. I would then remind him that I was obviously faster than him.

I agree with the comment about the pull out method becoming parents. My mom was allergic to latex. Dad apPARENTly pulled out but I was the fastest swimmer!

Your parents had this discussion with you?

lol

I'll keep you informed..me an my guy are rabbits BUT he has,been afraid to have sex ..sleeved Nov 9th..not worried about pregnancy at all...we are passed that stage..but he said Hus fear was hurting me/causing more pain than I have been experiencing... Guess I may have to take it from him so he would feel more confident????...he has been a great support in this decision soon I kn pi w he worries about my health first☺

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The pull out method worked so well for us, I have a 28 year old daughter from it!

Hey that's how my husband and I got our 7 year old son too...my husband's response to handing him the pregnancy tests..."why are you giving me highlighters?"

Then when I explained I was pregnant he said "f#€k! I should have paid attention in health class!"

Luckily we were planning to start trying to get pregnant. It just happened earlier than expected.

The pull out method worked so well for us, I have a 28 year old daughter from it!

In what alternate universe are you old enough to have a 28 year old daughter???

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Also, I will say, I have an IUD, but I've used the sponge before that when my guy didn't want to use a condom. It really wasn't bad at all. However, it is more expensive than condoms for regular use.

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I'll keep you informed..me an my guy are rabbits BUT he has,been afraid to have sex ..sleeved Nov 9th..not worried about pregnancy at all...we are passed that stage..but he said Hus fear was hurting me/causing more pain than I have been experiencing... Guess I may have to take it from him so he would feel more confident????...he has been a great support in this decision soon I kn pi w he worries about my health first☺

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I had my surgery 11/09/15!!

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With rapid weightloss and assocciated changes/increase in hormone levels, it could make you more fertile.

Tell him to wrap that rascal.

I removed IUD last month, just shy of my 1 yr anniversary of sleeve surgery. My IUD slipped and was causing trouble, so I decided to have it removed and no birth control. Hubby chooses not to wear condoms... I want to have kids, but he wants to wait a bit until he is finished with nursing school in about 2 years. Well I downloaded the ovia fertility app and have been tracking my cycle. I don't initiate sex at all, but I'm always horny!! I just don't want him to think I got pregnant on purpose. We have been married for 5 years.

Extreme weight loss and fat but causes the hormones to go crazy.. You become very fertile.. Unless you want a baby pulling out isn't gonna cut it.

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Okay I think I'll just grab some Magnums.... I don't want to risk getting pregnant but I like to have a good time!!! He just gotta deal with it

Magnums ???

Much respect.

.357 or .44? Magnums?

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Extreme weight loss and fat but causes the hormones to go crazy.. You become very fertile.. Unless you want a baby pulling out isn't gonna cut it.

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Okay I think I'll just grab some Magnums.... I don't want to risk getting pregnant but I like to have a good time!!! He just gotta deal with it

Magnums ???

Much respect.

.357 or .44? Magnums?

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Something tells me that magnum sizes guys have this conversation...

I know what you are thinking, did he fire blank shots or were they live?" Well to tell you the truth in all this excitement I kinda lost track when my eyes rolled to the back of my head and my knees buckled. But being this is a Magnum sized schlong, the most powerful penisgun in the world, you've gotta ask yourself one question: "Do I feel lucky?" Well, do ya, punk?

I removed IUD last month, just shy of my 1 yr anniversary of sleeve surgery. My IUD slipped and was causing trouble, so I decided to have it removed and no birth control. Hubby chooses not to wear condoms... I want to have kids, but he wants to wait a bit until he is finished with nursing school in about 2 years. Well I downloaded the ovia fertility app and have been tracking my cycle. I don't initiate sex at all, but I'm always horny!! I just don't want him to think I got pregnant on purpose. We have been married for 5 years.

I track mine as well so I think I'll be fine safety first tho

Extreme weight loss and fat but causes the hormones to go crazy.. You become very fertile.. Unless you want a baby pulling out isn't gonna cut it.

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Okay I think I'll just grab some Magnums.... I don't want to risk getting pregnant but I like to have a good time!!! He just gotta deal with it

Magnums ???

Much respect.

.357 or .44? Magnums?

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Something tells me that magnum sizes guys have this conversation...

I know what you are thinking, did he fire blank shots or were they live?" Well to tell you the truth in all this excitement I kinda lost track when my eyes rolled to the back of my head and my knees buckled. But being this is a Magnum sized schlong, the most powerful penisgun in the world, you've gotta ask yourself one question: "Do I feel lucky?" Well, do ya, punk?

LOL. Thank you "Dirty-mouth Harry".

lmao....

It only takes a 10% weight lose to jump start ovulation so unless you want a baby get on reliable birth control. I got pregnant when I was 46 (yes FOURTY-SIX ) after losing 80 pounds. My doctor looked at me like I was crazy when I asked for a pregnancy test...

I just telling you to be careful!

As for your boyfriend... he doesn't like condoms getting in the way of his pleasure? Ask him if he'd prefer a crying infant?