Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

cougar?..... Apparently, that's what i am now



Recommended Posts

So.... went to the cost this weekend (Biloxi, Ms) to the IP casino (no i don't gamble). Went with my Aunt and her Mardi Gras group (just girls). So Friday night, i get dressed, cute mint green sun dress with the even cuter wedges... i must have looked "approachable"..... Ages of the guys that hit on me... 22,25,30,33,.. and one 50 year old. The night went like this...

Them: hey, can i buy you a drink?..... Me: hum, i don't know, you look a little young..........How old are you? .............. Them: 22.. etc.......... Me: Oh, im to old for you........... Them: No your not, what are you 35 (apparently i look 35, thats what i kept hearing).......... Me: No, im 48,........... them: No way..... Me: Yes way... But on a more positive note.... i drank for free allllllll night till 4am

This single life could be fun....

Also, found out... i really need a smaller bikini bottom, my old one is tooooo big. Down to 133lbs... Whoop Whoop

Darker pic is friday night and the other is saturday dinner..... that's my aunt with me

post-74134-0-82568300-1473711203_thumb.jpg

post-74134-0-82968100-1473711233_thumb.jpg

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

You go, girl! My partner and I live in NOLA and go over to Biloxi all the time. It's a lot of fun!

Enjoy yourself!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Well, I would say you had a great night out! Congratulations on your weight loss and your Cougar Status. :D

I do find it shocking the attention one gets from the opposite sex after losing all our weight! Apparently I look great in clothes.

It can be a little scary and after being married for 29 years, I have NO idea how to handle it when it happens.

I usually sit there with my mouth dropped open not knowing what to say.

Apparently no one looked at me when i was fat. ;)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

You go, girl! My partner and I live in NOLA and go over to Biloxi all the time. It's a lot of fun!

Enjoy yourself!!

ohhhh my friend Bud and his husband are coming from fl at the end of the month... we should meet

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

@@Djmohr are you getting divorced too?

Can't answer for her but lemme tell ya I'm right where you are but married (no divorce in the offing) and the ring doesn't stop the attention. [emoji15]

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

so friday night.... as im cougaring on the dance floor (hehe) this cutie (pic below, total intoxicated in this pic) comes and grabs my hand and pulls me from the dance floor... (apparently my aunt told her i was getting divorced).... she proceeds to tell me that I didn't need to dance with anyone else because she was going to hook me up with her dad and I was going to be her new mom...... OK... lmao. We hung out all weekend and stayed intoxicated till the weeeee hours of the am... she was a blast.

So i went on a date with him last night... Nice guy, not really my type, but now he is "in love" with me.... lord help me.

im sad because i really liked hanging out with her... (friend)... not so much the dad.

What's a girl to do

post-74134-0-50688300-1473711667_thumb.jpg

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

48? You're not old enough to be a cougar yet. How about we go with beautiful mountain lioness?
I'm 41 and my husband is 51 and we for sure aren't old yet. :)

Congrats on your loss and sounds like you had a great time in Biloxi.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Wow you look awesome! Congrats!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Rock on, Cougs!

Sent from my SM-N920V using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Awesome inspiring post!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Eve411

      April Surgery
      Am I the only struggling to get weight down. I started with weight of 297 and now im 280 but seem to not lose more weight. My nutrtionist told me not to worry about the pounds because I might still be losing inches. However, I do not really see much of a difference is this happen to any of you, if so any tips?
      Thanks
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Clueless_girl

      Well recovering from gallbladder removal was a lot like recovering from the modified duodenal switch surgery, twice in 4 months yay 🥳😭. I'm having to battle cravings for everything i shouldn't have, on top of trying to figure out what happens after i eat something. Sigh, let me fast forward a couple of months when everyday isn't a constant battle and i can function like a normal person again! 😞
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • KeeWee

      It's been 10 long years! Here is my VSG weight loss surgiversary update..
      https://www.ae1bmerchme.com/post/10-year-surgiversary-update-for-2024 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Aunty Mamo

      Iʻm roughly 6 weeks post-op this morning and have begun to feel like a normal human, with a normal human body again. I started introducing solid foods and pill forms of medications/supplements a couple of weeks ago and it's really amazing to eat meals with my family again, despite the fact that my portions are so much smaller than theirs. 
      I live on the island of Oʻahu and spend a lot of time in the water- for exercise, for play,  and for spiritual & mental health. The day I had my month out appointment with my surgeon, I packed all my gear in my truck, anticipating his permission to get back in the ocean. The minute I walked out of that hospital I drove straight to the shore and got in that water. Hallelujah! My appointment was at 10 am. I didn't get home until after 5 pm. 
      I'm down 31 pounds since the day of surgery and 47 since my pre-op diet began, with that typical week long stall occurring at three weeks. I'm really starting to see some changes lately- some of my clothing is too big, some fits again. The most drastic changes I notice however are in my face. I've also noticed my endurance and flexibility increasing. I was really starting to be held up physically, and I'm so grateful that I'm seeing that turn around in such short order. 
      My general disposition lately is hopeful and motivated. The only thing that bugs me on a daily basis still is the way those supplements make my house smell. So stink! But I just bought a smell proof bag online that other people use to put their pot in. My house doesn't stink anymore. 
       
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Oh yeah, something I wanted to rant about, a billing dispute that cropped up 3 months ago.
      Surgery was in August of 2023. A bill shows up for over $7,000 in January. WTF? I asks myself. I know that I jumped through all of the insurance hoops and verified this and triple checked that, as did the surgeon's office. All was set, and I paid all of the known costs before surgery.
      A looong story short, is that an assistant surgeon that was in the process of accepting money from my insurance company touched me while I was under anesthesia. That is what the bill was for. But hey, guess what? Some federal legislation was enacted last year to help patients out when they cannot consent to being touched by someone out of their insurance network. These types of bills fall under something called, "surprise billing," and you don't have to put up with it.
      https://www.cms.gov/nosurprises
      I had to make a lot of phone calls to both the surgeon's office and the insurance company and explain my rights and what the maximum out of pocket costs were that I could be liable for. Also had to remind them that it isn't my place to be taking care of all of this and that I was going to escalate things if they could not play nice with one another.
      Quick ending is that I don't have to pay that $7,000+. Advocate, advocate, advocate for yourself no matter how long it takes and learn more about this law if you are ever hit with a surprise bill.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×