Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Help. I can't stop eating



Recommended Posts

I'm so disgusted with myself. I'm 14 months out from gastric bypass surgery. I've gained back all my weight. I'm hungry all the time. I tried the pouch reset. I've tried walking or showers when I'm hungry. Nothing seems to work. I'm starving one hour after I eat. Even if it high Protein meal. Nothing makes me sick and I never feel full or bloated I didn't eat this much before surgery. It is like something was triggered inside of me. I don't know what to do. Any help or advice would be appreciated.

Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Is it physical hunger or really bad cravings? Did you already see your surgeon to check if the pouch and anastomosis are ok?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Could it be emotional eating? Physically speaking is difficult to be hungry constantly, have you been stressed out lately?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I would start with the surgeon and also a therapist. Confirm that the surgery was successful in creating the pouch and then leverage the therapist to help you with cravings.

If you had RNY you should not feel actual real hunger for several month post op. You don't speak much about your eating habits in general.

Do you follow the rules of RNY? Dense Protein and vegetables for your meals. Measure and track everything.

I would get confirmation and go back to my Bariatric team for help.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

@@Debi287 - are you grazing? Are you drinking calories? You might have to disopline yourself to only have 4 meals a day and get rid of snacking stuff in your house.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

@@OKCPirate

After 22 months post op, I found myself in grazing hell yesterday. I am recovering from plastics so I know why but I never ever ever want to experience a day like yesterday. I honestly did not think I would ever do that but I was starving and no amount of anything I ate, resolved it. I made some good choices like cheese and lunch meats but I made some horrible choices like dove dark chocolate and crackers. It seemed the crappier the stuff I ate the more hungry I was.

Today, is a new day. I went back to basics with a Protein shake in the am, cottage cheese and a peach for lunch, a Protein Bar for a snack and tons of Water. I will have an taco dish for dinner. I am so glad I found my way back to my norm because not only was I eating everything, for the first time in 22 month I felt like crap about it. I never feel guilty because I follow the plan to about 90% all the time.

So.......I tell you all of this because I think you ask an excellent question. What are this persons current eating habits? Do they come close to the rules? We need more info to help.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I can relate. I've been eating terrible and I graze constantly. My biggest problem is not eating enough Protein. I'm tired all the time and struggle with fluids. I eat too many of the wrong things in bread form. It's terrible I am not able to follow the right path.

Edited by sleever54

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Aunty Mamo

      Iʻm roughly 6 weeks post-op this morning and have begun to feel like a normal human, with a normal human body again. I started introducing solid foods and pill forms of medications/supplements a couple of weeks ago and it's really amazing to eat meals with my family again, despite the fact that my portions are so much smaller than theirs. 
      I live on the island of Oʻahu and spend a lot of time in the water- for exercise, for play,  and for spiritual & mental health. The day I had my month out appointment with my surgeon, I packed all my gear in my truck, anticipating his permission to get back in the ocean. The minute I walked out of that hospital I drove straight to the shore and got in that water. Hallelujah! My appointment was at 10 am. I didn't get home until after 5 pm. 
      I'm down 31 pounds since the day of surgery and 47 since my pre-op diet began, with that typical week long stall occurring at three weeks. I'm really starting to see some changes lately- some of my clothing is too big, some fits again. The most drastic changes I notice however are in my face. I've also noticed my endurance and flexibility increasing. I was really starting to be held up physically, and I'm so grateful that I'm seeing that turn around in such short order. 
      My general disposition lately is hopeful and motivated. The only thing that bugs me on a daily basis still is the way those supplements make my house smell. So stink! But I just bought a smell proof bag online that other people use to put their pot in. My house doesn't stink anymore. 
       
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Oh yeah, something I wanted to rant about, a billing dispute that cropped up 3 months ago.
      Surgery was in August of 2023. A bill shows up for over $7,000 in January. WTF? I asks myself. I know that I jumped through all of the insurance hoops and verified this and triple checked that, as did the surgeon's office. All was set, and I paid all of the known costs before surgery.
      A looong story short, is that an assistant surgeon that was in the process of accepting money from my insurance company touched me while I was under anesthesia. That is what the bill was for. But hey, guess what? Some federal legislation was enacted last year to help patients out when they cannot consent to being touched by someone out of their insurance network. These types of bills fall under something called, "surprise billing," and you don't have to put up with it.
      https://www.cms.gov/nosurprises
      I had to make a lot of phone calls to both the surgeon's office and the insurance company and explain my rights and what the maximum out of pocket costs were that I could be liable for. Also had to remind them that it isn't my place to be taking care of all of this and that I was going to escalate things if they could not play nice with one another.
      Quick ending is that I don't have to pay that $7,000+. Advocate, advocate, advocate for yourself no matter how long it takes and learn more about this law if you are ever hit with a surprise bill.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Some days I feel like an infiltrator... I'm participating in society as a "thin" person. They have no idea that I haven't always been one of them! 🤣
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • ChunkCat

      Thank you everyone for your well wishes! I totally forgot I wrote an update here... I'm one week post op today. I gained 15 lbs in water weight overnight because they had to give me tons of fluids to bring my BP up after surgery! I stayed one night in the hospital. Everything has been fine except I seem to have picked up a bug while I was there and I've been running a low grade fever, coughing, and a sore throat. So I've been hydrating well and sleeping a ton. So far the Covid tests are negative.
      I haven't been able to advance my diet past purees. Everything I eat other than tofu makes me choke and feels like trying to swallow rocks. They warned me it would get worse before it gets better, so lets hope this is all normal. I have my follow up on Monday so we'll see. Living on shakes and soup again is not fun. I had enough of them the first time!! LOL 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Still purging all of the larger clothing. This morning, a shirt that I ADORED wearing ended up on top. Hard to let it go, but it was also hard to let go of those habits that also no longer serve my highest good. Onward and upward!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×