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Twinmomma422

You needed to let him spend the night in jail on his ass. Not bail him out. If he touches you again, you need to take out a restraining order. You need to talk to a lawyer to find out your rights in a divorce. And you need to get him to give you the money you spent on bail. He'll get it back when he shows up to court. If he doesn't you're the one out the cash.

I'm sorry for your troubles, but you need to look out for yourself and your kids.

I know I should have let him stay but I couldn't. I tel everyone I talk to that I know it sounds stupid after everything he's done to me but I just couldn't do it. I'm not that type of person even though I should be. :-/

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Oh honey don't feel stupid. You're dealing with it from all sides. Just know you will get through it, fight for what you deserve, and look forward to a happier safer future.

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You might call United Way or other organizations. Our town has a legal service organization that offers services at reduced costs. Will pray for you and your family.

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If he is mentally ill, as you have said, and he is not being treated way for it, he is unreliable, unpredictable and dangerous. Period.

If he wound up in jail for DUI, he will wind up there again. And it won't be so easy to get him out the second time.

What will you do then?

If he has physically abused you, even if it was the first time, it will happen again.

What will you do then?

If you haven't replaced the locks on all your doors, what will he have to do before you do so?

As you've said several times, he's "not himself." And that's why you must replace those locks.

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