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hi i had gastric sleeve surgery on July 6th ended back into the hospital i developed a blood clot .than a hernia spent about 2 and 1/2 months in and out of the hospital i couldn't keep anything down now i have a feeding tube and it;s very depressing never thought this would happen to me either.i know what you are going through i have no appatite also food does not taste good i'm sceared

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I remember being right where you are. I also remember other people words of encouragement and telling I'm going to get through it.

Yet, all I felt was fear & despair. Like, how can they say this and at the time no one had experienced what I had.

But after the fear and than the anger at myself for doing the surgery. I slowly started to ease up on myself. I had to be patient.

It was not an easy roae. Mine became more complicated because I got pregnant 9 months after my surgery. However, I had a healthy son & I'm still carrying the 25lbs 3 years after having him.

This is all to say. In the end it will balance out. It may not ve the way you expected but this is the path meant for you. You can get through this. Just remember

- Give yourself patience

- Give yourself forgiveness

- Ask for help

- And listen to your surgeon and nutritionist

3 years out and I still have some issues with the sleeve. But, in the end it was worth it & I learned something about myself as well.

I hope this helped a little

- Caridad

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Thank you for the encouragment i feel like i have been through this for so long no desire to eat and my taste buds are so messed up it's nice to know i'm not alone

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