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Hi! I'm Amy, 33 married to my biggest cheerleader. I have two boys ages 9 and 5. From Ludington Mi. I'm having surgery done in Muskegon by dr. Gluck.

Looking for a friend for the journey!

My stats are

Biggest weight: 330lbs

Consultation weight: 301.5

I'm 5'4"

Doc says I will end up around 120lbs!

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Hi Amy! I'm Jenny and live in NJ. I have a 12 yo daughter and also married. We moved here from Ohio a few years ago. I'm scheduled to have the surgery at the beginning of February. I'm currently around 275lbs and 5'5"". I'm excited, but really nervous and still thinking a lot about it. What about you? How are you feeling?

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Hi Amy! I'm Jenny and live in NJ. I have a 12 yo daughter and also married. We moved here from Ohio a few years ago. I'm scheduled to have the surgery at the beginning of February. I'm currently around 275lbs and 5'5"". I'm excited, but really nervous and still thinking a lot about it. What about you? How are you feeling?

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I'm excited more than nervous. I've been big my whole life, it's time for me to feel good in my body! My husband is a cancer survivor and we worry about his health, I need to be healthy to be around for a long time for my boys.

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Hey Amy!! Good for you. It's awesome to be taking control of our lives. I'm 5'6" 240 lbs. it took a long time for me to make this decision. I think it is the right one for me. As my surgery gets closer I'm just getting nervous. I start my 14 day liquid Dec 30th. Hopefully that will go well and give me a jump start on my weight loss. I have also started going to the gym. That should help too. Good luck to you!

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Hi Linda and Amy! It's nice to connect with other people getting ready for surgery. Amy, my husband is a cancer survivor too, so I can relate to already worrying about long-term health in your twenties and thirties. Blessedly, he's been in remission for close to 9 years. I understand that feeling of being heavy my whole life. I'm also bit of an emotional eater, so I've been working with a counselor on these issues and it's definitely helped. Linda,what end of NJ are you? We are south jersey. What kind of Protein Drinks are you ladies drinking for pre op? I can always use suggestions!

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Hi Amy I am Having the sleeve 2/1 currently in the liquid diet phase so I lost 10 lbs which is probably fluids, but wt was 227 hoping for 140 lb goal. I hope we can all share our journey together

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Hi Amy I am Having the sleeve 2/1 currently in the liquid diet phase so I lost 10 lbs which is probably fluids, but wt was 227 hoping for 140 lb goal. I hope we can all share our journey together

Hello!

It's been a journey so far and it's just starting! I bet you can't wait till Monday! I'll be praying for a successful surgery and fast recovery!

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Hello all! Congrats on your decision. I just had surgery on Monday in NJ. I was completely excited yet scared out of my wits. But post-op has been good so far thank God. If you guys have any questions please feel free to let me know.

33M - Married, SW:398

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I have one, every single person I have talked to said they woke up post op and wished they had never done it. Did you feel this way?

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