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Hey there. I looked on the forums for twenty something's and it was a ghost town! I just had my bypass 3/31 and I'm healing well. I'm looking for someone my age who would like to text updates and keep each other positive. I'd prefer someone in a similar stage of the surgery but I am open and truly just would love to make a connection with someone who is looking for something similar. Please respond or pm me. :)

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Hi there, haven't had the bypass yet, I'm scheduled for 4/22... I too am looking for someone to connect with and get thru the many upcoming stages! I'm not too savy with the site yet, so add me if interested. Good luck! I'd love to know how your doing.

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Hi bangbangbarbie,

I am 28/f/ny and scheduled for a VSG on May 1st. I am not quite at the same stage as you are post-op but would love to hear about your experience and possibly keep in touch along the way. Where abouts in NY are you and where did you have your surgery? How are you feeling now?

Diana

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Hi! I am 32/f/nyc and doing VSGER sometime this summer. Would love to connect and have people to stay positive with and share experiences too

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Hello friend,

If age is flexible I'll be your friend. I had my RNY April 2, and in stage 2 of recovery. While I will have a monthly support group meeting, sharing experiences with someone else will aid recovery. Meanwhile, my 2 cats are giving me daily support and will send some to you too.

fuzzyfeline

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Hey @@bangbangbarbie! Ya the 20-something forum is a ghost town! I'm 25, had my RnY on 03/26/15 and live in Ontario Canada. I know exactly what you're talking about, this is all a bit tricky to navigate and it is helpful having people who are going through the same thing. Feel free to drop me a line!

Hope you're doing well :)

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I am a member of the May sleevers group and they have a very active private group on Facebook. Would that be a more convenient way for everyone to communicate? I would be more than happy to set something up if you all think so! There is zero way for anyone else to see that you are a member of the group :)

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Hey I had the bypass done 4/8/15 ..and I am healing well and doing good with my liquids stay strong and would love to be your friend

I had surgery the same day..

I am also going good..getting my liquids in and walking

Edited by Aspring424

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hey! i'm 22 and had mine in dec 2014!

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Hi I would love to be your or anyone else who responded … I need someone who has gone through the same experience as i just had. I am new to this site so I don't know how 2 ' friend' anyone.

I had surgery 22 months ago and what a wild ride it has been

I look forward to hearing from all of you,

Kim

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I'm 26, bypass on May 19! Pick me!

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