As many of you know, we have a "powder Room" for our chickies. Those rooms are meant to be "safe places" where the boys could discuss their issues (do you really grow an inch with each 10 pounds lost!?!!) and the girls can discuss theirs (oh my gawd, the never ending period).

Often times, we've noticed that the boys tiptoe into the girls' room inadvertently and vice versa. Some people get a bit touchy about it and others LOVE the input/ideas/opinions that the opposite gender brings. So here we are!

Feel free to discuss any issue you want that's adult related and might not belong in the view of those who are more "delicate" or easily offended. The other forums still exist, but this room will allow us to monitor that one a bit more closely. Just remember, this is not a hook-up room or a meat market. We have the singles room for that.

Have fun and learn from each other!

I wish Alex would bring back the chat room.... OMG the words that were written in there.... Nothing was off limits. Now some of us just chat on Yahoo...

Some of the best post are when the men invade or the women invade the "special room".

Agree. That's why we made THIS room.

i liked that we could have a side private chat if you wanted...

Interesting forum.....have to see where it goes before I find an opening to jump in

Edited March 27, 201511 yr by B-52

Well since this is the "randy" place, I'll pass this on as encouragement to those who are just beginning their journey. My girl friend was having her way with me down there, and I looked down and realized my gut wasn't blocking the view. It was amazing. I forgot how cool it looks. And she is one to really get into it. We met after I lost weight so she has no idea what a big deal it was to me, but it is a really big deal to me.

And yeah, without all the fat, I am much "ahem" bigger than I remember. And with all the exercise, I can do things I have not done since college. It is so cool being 51, and playing around like I'm 19. They really need to put "improve your sex life" in the brochures.

One night I went to bed a 40-something year old and woke up and 19 year old horny boy. Lol

@@OKCPirate oh my for someone 6 days post op that laughing hurt. I tried and tried to read it to my husband but kept giggling which hurt the incisions!! Thank you so much I needed that reading!! Wow I am really going to like this open forum reading lol

How did I not know about this room?

Please PM Alex if you want the chat room back. I've already pmed him and he said nobody was using it. He said he's looking at new software that will enable him to bring a chat room back, if we really want one.

I really miss the chat room too. It has to be one where a lot of people can be in it. He had one for awhile where you could chat with one person if their green light was on.

Where can you chat in yahoo?

@@LipstickLady and others, it's BACK!

http://www.bariatricpal.com/chat/

How do you find it if there is no link.'

I want to post about it so people will come in and chat, but I have to be able to tell them how to find the chat button.