Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Can you ever eat "Normal" food again?



Recommended Posts

I'm 8.5 months out and unfortunately it looks like I can eat anything it want. That for me is a bad thing. I was hoping my pouch would restrict me much longer than this. So know it's up to me. I will not be bringing fudge into the house. I will not stop at the bakery. I will not fall back into the habit of eating out again.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Am 6 months out. Can pretty much eat anything I want and have since the beginning pretty much.

Bacon is still an issue. It just feels like it sits in my stomach like a dead weight.

Just remember to always eat the Protein first and all else if you still have room.

I don't deprive myself of anything. I just follow that rule.

I eat bread, in moderation

I eat biscotti from the local bakery, in moderation

And so on.

I even had desert on thanksgiving and xmas.

For me if I do have carbs I notice a failure to lose weight. Salt is also a killer for me.

But follow the plan and those few days aren't the worst thing in the world. The pounds come back down shortly after the allowances

am down 72 pounds in 6 months

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I am so excited to start my new life. Just nervous I'll mess it up. I am a full time single mom of 2 young kids(1with severe adhd and odd). Just hope I can stick to the diet and make separate food for my kids. Wish there were people in the same position or atleast close to it near me. It just would be nice to have that support.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Amy I agree with not going out to eat. Just with my kids it's hard. I can't stop taking them out just cause my diet needs to change. This is my plan:

Well 1st my grandpa died of weight related issues and died at home when my dad was 5. My other grandpa died of weight related issues before I was born. I don't want that for my kids. Don't want to die at home or while they are so young. Yes I want to lose weight to feel better and all but it's more about my kids. I am doing this for them. So I can be a better role model for them and be more active with them.. So back to my plan: When I take them out to eat I will bring a healthy meal for my self. I will take the dogs for longer walks and more often....list goes on. I will need to find healthier vegetarian meals as well.

If anyone has any tips please offer them.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I'm one year out and eat a lot of different things. Just in small amounts. There is still some things I can't have but it's a small price to pay.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Amy I agree with not going out to eat. Just with my kids it's hard. I can't stop taking them out just cause my diet needs to change. This is my plan:

Well 1st my grandpa died of weight related issues and died at home when my dad was 5. My other grandpa died of weight related issues before I was born. I don't want that for my kids. Don't want to die at home or while they are so young. Yes I want to lose weight to feel better and all but it's more about my kids. I am doing this for them. So I can be a better role model for them and be more active with them.. So back to my plan: When I take them out to eat I will bring a healthy meal for my self. I will take the dogs for longer walks and more often....list goes on. I will need to find healthier vegetarian meals as well.

If anyone has any tips please offer them.

I love your plans to be a better role model for your kids! I really regret that I wasn't with mine when they were growing up - we ate a lot of fast food back then and when we would go to regular restaurants, we'd order loads of fattening foods. I wish I had that part to "do over" with them! But I am a little baffled by your plan to take your own healthy meals with you when you take your kids out to eat. Why not choose somewhere you can go where you all can eat something healthy? Because really, if it isn't healthy for you to eat anything at that restaurant, then it isn't healthy for your kids either. This would be a perfect time to teach them about good nutrition, Portion Control, making healthier choices while eating out, etc. Just a thought. I wish I had known what I know now when there was still an opportunity for me to shape my kids' habits!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Can you? Probably. Should you? Probably not. :) it is a commitment to a life change. And bread is really what got us all here in the first place. I think you really have to commit to low carb for life and the thing about carbs is once you start it's hard to stop. For me it would be like playing with fire.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • KeeWee

      It's been 10 long years! Here is my VSG weight loss surgiversary update..
      https://www.ae1bmerchme.com/post/10-year-surgiversary-update-for-2024 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Aunty Mamo

      Iʻm roughly 6 weeks post-op this morning and have begun to feel like a normal human, with a normal human body again. I started introducing solid foods and pill forms of medications/supplements a couple of weeks ago and it's really amazing to eat meals with my family again, despite the fact that my portions are so much smaller than theirs. 
      I live on the island of Oʻahu and spend a lot of time in the water- for exercise, for play,  and for spiritual & mental health. The day I had my month out appointment with my surgeon, I packed all my gear in my truck, anticipating his permission to get back in the ocean. The minute I walked out of that hospital I drove straight to the shore and got in that water. Hallelujah! My appointment was at 10 am. I didn't get home until after 5 pm. 
      I'm down 31 pounds since the day of surgery and 47 since my pre-op diet began, with that typical week long stall occurring at three weeks. I'm really starting to see some changes lately- some of my clothing is too big, some fits again. The most drastic changes I notice however are in my face. I've also noticed my endurance and flexibility increasing. I was really starting to be held up physically, and I'm so grateful that I'm seeing that turn around in such short order. 
      My general disposition lately is hopeful and motivated. The only thing that bugs me on a daily basis still is the way those supplements make my house smell. So stink! But I just bought a smell proof bag online that other people use to put their pot in. My house doesn't stink anymore. 
       
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Oh yeah, something I wanted to rant about, a billing dispute that cropped up 3 months ago.
      Surgery was in August of 2023. A bill shows up for over $7,000 in January. WTF? I asks myself. I know that I jumped through all of the insurance hoops and verified this and triple checked that, as did the surgeon's office. All was set, and I paid all of the known costs before surgery.
      A looong story short, is that an assistant surgeon that was in the process of accepting money from my insurance company touched me while I was under anesthesia. That is what the bill was for. But hey, guess what? Some federal legislation was enacted last year to help patients out when they cannot consent to being touched by someone out of their insurance network. These types of bills fall under something called, "surprise billing," and you don't have to put up with it.
      https://www.cms.gov/nosurprises
      I had to make a lot of phone calls to both the surgeon's office and the insurance company and explain my rights and what the maximum out of pocket costs were that I could be liable for. Also had to remind them that it isn't my place to be taking care of all of this and that I was going to escalate things if they could not play nice with one another.
      Quick ending is that I don't have to pay that $7,000+. Advocate, advocate, advocate for yourself no matter how long it takes and learn more about this law if you are ever hit with a surprise bill.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Some days I feel like an infiltrator... I'm participating in society as a "thin" person. They have no idea that I haven't always been one of them! 🤣
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • ChunkCat

      Thank you everyone for your well wishes! I totally forgot I wrote an update here... I'm one week post op today. I gained 15 lbs in water weight overnight because they had to give me tons of fluids to bring my BP up after surgery! I stayed one night in the hospital. Everything has been fine except I seem to have picked up a bug while I was there and I've been running a low grade fever, coughing, and a sore throat. So I've been hydrating well and sleeping a ton. So far the Covid tests are negative.
      I haven't been able to advance my diet past purees. Everything I eat other than tofu makes me choke and feels like trying to swallow rocks. They warned me it would get worse before it gets better, so lets hope this is all normal. I have my follow up on Monday so we'll see. Living on shakes and soup again is not fun. I had enough of them the first time!! LOL 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×