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So here the scoop, im 30 years old my name is michael. The first time i tryed to get sleeve done was last year and was brought to the team as they call it to deny me cause my family doctor kept raising my meds which in turn caused me to have bad freaking out problems. I am no longer on that meds and and better a year later. I have done everything they have asked me as far as the insurance requirments. At one point the pysh pissed me off and he said he wanted to see me again. Well i never made that appointment. After my last Dietitcian vist she said she was going to turn everything over of apporval. I got a call saying that was looking at you file to see if you were ready to move on and i notice you were suppose to have a follow up with the pych, and you need to make that appointment. So i did and he said that since you were once brought to the team there policy is that they have to bring you to the team again. So they had there meeting and i asked that they call me back and let me know if its a go or no. He says that he wants to review things a little bit more, and he give me a call next week and dissucuse it with me, and he wants to let me know that he is actively trying to move things forward with my case...... I kinda feel like he going to say no. The one nurse said that everyone signed off on me and so it sounds like its all in his hands. PLEASE give me your advice on this if you had similar problems as i am. Or maybe im just worryiing to much. Thanks

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So here the scoop, im 30 years old my name is michael. The first time i tryed to get sleeve done was last year and was brought to the team as they call it to deny me cause my family doctor kept raising my meds which in turn caused me to have bad freaking out problems. I am no longer on that meds and and better a year later. I have done everything they have asked me as far as the insurance requirments. At one point the pysh pissed me off and he said he wanted to see me again. Well i never made that appointment. After my last Dietitcian vist she said she was going to turn everything over of apporval. I got a call saying that was looking at you file to see if you were ready to move on and i notice you were suppose to have a follow up with the pych, and you need to make that appointment. So i did and he said that since you were once brought to the team there policy is that they have to bring you to the team again. So they had there meeting and i asked that they call me back and let me know if its a go or no. He says that he wants to review things a little bit more, and he give me a call next week and dissucuse it with me, and he wants to let me know that he is actively trying to move things forward with my case...... I kinda feel like he going to say no. The one nurse said that everyone signed off on me and so it sounds like its all in his hands. PLEASE give me your advice on this if you had similar problems as i am. Or maybe im just worryiing to much. Thanks

I say stay positive and don't give up.

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Hang in there. Sometimes I wonder if they are testing us to see how much we can take. I think that they want to make sure we are mentally strong enough to handle life after the sleeve. Keep thinking postive.

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U r probably worring too much. Keep the faith

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