Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Well here we go.. this is me! *pictures included*



Recommended Posts

a while back I posted a thread where I spoke about the lack of support I was experiencing from those around me . . well, I will no longer believe im good enough because of what others THINK .. I will now feel good about myself because i've made it! im happy & rny was by far the best decision of my life.

my surgeon, my weight management center, my pcp, & my therapist have been there for me in remarkable and admirable ways . . a few calls to them and im finally starting to see why I did this.. because I deserve to feel healthy beautiful in my own skin!!

so word of advice to other young ladies my age (20) out there : dont let your young age stop you from making this decision. I chose to risk it all in a life changing decision! if its truely what your heart desires and in your heart you believe this will help you become a better and healthier you, go for it! at the end of the day people will always have opinions about

you.. but the most & only important opinion you should keep in mind is your own!!

post-178018-0-33112600-1401647438_thumb.png

[ATTACH]45044[/ATTACH]

post-178018-0-84539600-1401647453_thumb.png

[ATTACH]45045[/ATTACH]

post-178018-0-79870200-1401647464_thumb.png

[ATTACH]45046[/ATTACH]

Height: 5'8

weight on DOS: 275lbs

Current Weight: 190lbs

DOS : January 14th, 2014 (almost 5mnths out)

lbs lost so far ... 85!!! yaaay!

Edited by infinite_allure

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Congratulations! You look amazing!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

congratulations you look great!!! I wish I had the courage when i was 20 to take on this journey im 29 and just about to go into surgery on friday and my only wish is that i had done it sooner and not let myself get so out of control in my relationship with food. you have a whole lot of us here that will support yOU!!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

congratulations you look great!!! I wish I had the courage when i was 20 to take on this journey im 29 and just about to go into surgery on friday and my only wish is that i had done it sooner and not let myself get so out of control in my relationship with food. you have a whole lot of us here that will support yOU!!!

thank you so much! I've dealt with negative comments through the past 5 months, people have put me down with the "youre going to get too skinny!" line. it really messed with my head . but coming on here I feel like everyone understands my happiness because they are experiencing the same! so glad I can share my story... :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

congratulations you look great!!! I wish I had the courage when i was 20 to take on this journey im 29 and just about to go into surgery on friday and my only wish is that i had done it sooner and not let myself get so out of control in my relationship with food. you have a whole lot of us here that will support yOU!!!

thank you so much! I've dealt with negative comments through the past 5 months, people have put me down with the "youre going to get too skinny!" line. it really messed with my head . but coming on here I feel like everyone understands my happiness because they are experiencing the same! so glad I can share my story... :)

There will always be haters out there. It only matters how YOU feel anyway! I also wish I had done this surgery sooner!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

You are amazing! I'm 28 and totally wish I had surgery sooner. How inspiring :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Congratulations! You look great. What's your size? I'm almost two years post op. Happy that went through with it.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Congratulations!! You look awesome!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Congrats! You look amazing. You should never let anyone define who you are but yourself! If they aren't supportive, they don't need to be in your life. Only surround yourself with positive people.

You look awesome! Show yourself off!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

thank you everyone for your encouraging words!! I still struggle with believing a& understanding that I am not who I was before. without a doubt, my surgery changed my life. so while others see it as an easy way out, I have come to the realization that it was basically my only way out! & I should never feel ashamed! im way too happy for all of that! lol

I was wearing a size 16 pre-op and im currently wearing a size 9.

I believe my height plays well into my appearance thus always making people say "you never looked that fat to begin with" "youre going to get tok skinny"

I just brush it off! im happy and most importantly im not just living, I finally feel ALIVE!!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

You look amazing!!! All the best to you, I'm inspired!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

You look amazing!!! All the best to you, I'm inspired!!

thank you!! im so glad you are inspired! this is truly an amazing journey! enjoy every part of it!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Amazing transformation. You are stunning! Keep up the good work and remember you have to do it for yourself....

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

a while back I posted a thread where I spoke about the lack of support I was experiencing from those around me . . . DOS : January 14th, 2014 (almost 5mnths out) lbs lost so far ... 85!!! yaaay!

You look fabulous! Congratulations on all your hard work.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Aunty Mamo

      Iʻm roughly 6 weeks post-op this morning and have begun to feel like a normal human, with a normal human body again. I started introducing solid foods and pill forms of medications/supplements a couple of weeks ago and it's really amazing to eat meals with my family again, despite the fact that my portions are so much smaller than theirs. 
      I live on the island of Oʻahu and spend a lot of time in the water- for exercise, for play,  and for spiritual & mental health. The day I had my month out appointment with my surgeon, I packed all my gear in my truck, anticipating his permission to get back in the ocean. The minute I walked out of that hospital I drove straight to the shore and got in that water. Hallelujah! My appointment was at 10 am. I didn't get home until after 5 pm. 
      I'm down 31 pounds since the day of surgery and 47 since my pre-op diet began, with that typical week long stall occurring at three weeks. I'm really starting to see some changes lately- some of my clothing is too big, some fits again. The most drastic changes I notice however are in my face. I've also noticed my endurance and flexibility increasing. I was really starting to be held up physically, and I'm so grateful that I'm seeing that turn around in such short order. 
      My general disposition lately is hopeful and motivated. The only thing that bugs me on a daily basis still is the way those supplements make my house smell. So stink! But I just bought a smell proof bag online that other people use to put their pot in. My house doesn't stink anymore. 
       
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Oh yeah, something I wanted to rant about, a billing dispute that cropped up 3 months ago.
      Surgery was in August of 2023. A bill shows up for over $7,000 in January. WTF? I asks myself. I know that I jumped through all of the insurance hoops and verified this and triple checked that, as did the surgeon's office. All was set, and I paid all of the known costs before surgery.
      A looong story short, is that an assistant surgeon that was in the process of accepting money from my insurance company touched me while I was under anesthesia. That is what the bill was for. But hey, guess what? Some federal legislation was enacted last year to help patients out when they cannot consent to being touched by someone out of their insurance network. These types of bills fall under something called, "surprise billing," and you don't have to put up with it.
      https://www.cms.gov/nosurprises
      I had to make a lot of phone calls to both the surgeon's office and the insurance company and explain my rights and what the maximum out of pocket costs were that I could be liable for. Also had to remind them that it isn't my place to be taking care of all of this and that I was going to escalate things if they could not play nice with one another.
      Quick ending is that I don't have to pay that $7,000+. Advocate, advocate, advocate for yourself no matter how long it takes and learn more about this law if you are ever hit with a surprise bill.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Some days I feel like an infiltrator... I'm participating in society as a "thin" person. They have no idea that I haven't always been one of them! 🤣
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • ChunkCat

      Thank you everyone for your well wishes! I totally forgot I wrote an update here... I'm one week post op today. I gained 15 lbs in water weight overnight because they had to give me tons of fluids to bring my BP up after surgery! I stayed one night in the hospital. Everything has been fine except I seem to have picked up a bug while I was there and I've been running a low grade fever, coughing, and a sore throat. So I've been hydrating well and sleeping a ton. So far the Covid tests are negative.
      I haven't been able to advance my diet past purees. Everything I eat other than tofu makes me choke and feels like trying to swallow rocks. They warned me it would get worse before it gets better, so lets hope this is all normal. I have my follow up on Monday so we'll see. Living on shakes and soup again is not fun. I had enough of them the first time!! LOL 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Still purging all of the larger clothing. This morning, a shirt that I ADORED wearing ended up on top. Hard to let it go, but it was also hard to let go of those habits that also no longer serve my highest good. Onward and upward!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×