Nine days after surgery, how to help

[Kitt3000 757]

I just love that saying, " not my circus, not my monkeys" !! Laughing still...

[Mary Cade 23]

God bless you , you have your hands fullill pray for you that he will change

[indygirl49 3]

I feel so bad for you. Your husband is clearly taking advantage and going over board. I personally feel that you are going to have to show him some tough love and hold him accountable for his own self and progress. I wish you the best.

[pxinaz 8]

Thank you. It is now six months out. He's lost 151 pounds and feels great. Comorbidities are gone. Still has a long way to go, but this week's surgery follow up made the docs quite happy.

I'd like to say things have changed between us, but they really haven't.

I've lost 66 pounds without surgery. Go figure. My arthritis hasn't improved. Such is life. I'm the little engine that keeps going forward and I strive for peace. Sometimes that means forgiving the bully and just moving on. Is it what my feminist power self would have done? Nope. But it's the only option for now.

[Redmond 7]

He needs a punch in the face. Do you have a brother ?