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Imus show suspended due to racial comments

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For heaven's sake, get over it.

Now, this is a TOTAL guess, but I'll bet if you were a black female athlete who trained hours every day and fought stereotypes and perhaps adverse circumstances your whole life, and who ended up becoming an award-winning basketball player, you'd have a really, really different perspective on things.

It's funny when white males tell black girls to get over it. Try living their life for one day. You're an overpriveleged majority. You get over yourself.

For heaven's sake, get over it.

Now, this is a TOTAL guess, but I'll bet if you were a black female athlete who trained hours every day and fought stereotypes and perhaps adverse circumstances your whole life, and who ended up becoming an award-winning basketball player, you'd have a really, really different perspective on things.

It's funny when white males tell black girls to get over it. Try living their life for one day. You're an overpriveleged majority. You get over yourself.

You don't think that I have to fight stereotypes? You are SADLY, SADLY mistaken.

Oh, and overprivelidged...hahaha. You, my dear, are very, very uninformed. When it's easier for a white male to get into college than a black, mexican male or any foreign race, let me know. Plus, how can you automatically assume I came from a upper-class family. Is it because of my more conservative views?

Methinks you have some learning to do about making stereotypes.

Being offensive is Imus's schtick. He is a shock jock and for many years he and Howard Stern were carrying on a serious rivalry for both market share and the title of 'king of the shock jocks.' A shock jock is expected to be outrageous, gross, controversial, and offensive. His target audience is males from the age of 15 to 40, males with a frat boy sense of humour, a target group which is notoriously difficult to attract, by the way.

Don Imus certainly did blow it with the 'nappy head ho' wise crack but that is because he is a white guy who happened to diss a team of serious female athletes. Had he been a Black artist he might have been cut some slack. Who knows?

Of course Imus is not a racist. He is just a shock jock who pushed the rule-breaking, politically incorrect humour envelope way too far. (Howard Stern may be better protected; his long-term side-kick, Robin Quivers, is a woman of colour and he himself is Jewish.)

I would also suggest that the problem which Imus has run up against was in part created by the young Black urban music culture itself. We have, afterall, been listening to black men referring to their women as hos for a couple of decades now. It will become more difficult to remember to prize individuals who seem to hold themselves and those who belong to them in contempt. Perhaps this stupid white man fell into this trap.

I dont understand why more women are not out rage about his comment. I just wonder if it was a team of white blonds and he made a comment about the blond's (blond bimbo ho's) would that have gotten the same amount of attention? Just wondering.

You don't think that I have to fight stereotypes? You are SADLY, SADLY mistaken.

Oh, and overprivelidged...hahaha. You, my dear, are very, very uninformed. When it's easier for a white male to get into college than a black, mexican male or any foreign race, let me know. Plus, how can you automatically assume I came from a upper-class family. Is it because of my more conservative views?

Methinks you have some learning to do about making stereotypes.

You have got to be kidding me. We must be living in too different worlds. And the sad thing is you actually believe what you are saying (typing). You need to come out of your bubble and live in the real world.

Since when is it more difficult for a white male to get into minorities......Stop dreaming...

:phanvan

Being offensive is Imus's schtick. He is a shock jock and for many years he and Howard Stern were carrying on a serious rivalry for both market share and the title of 'king of the shock jocks.' A shock jock is expected to be outrageous, gross, controversial, and offensive. His target audience is males from the age of 15 to 40, males with a frat boy sense of humour, a target group which is notoriously difficult to attract, by the way.

Don Imus certainly did blow it with the 'nappy head ho' wise crack but that is because he is a white guy who happened to diss a team of serious female athletes. Had he been a Black artist he might have been cut some slack. Who knows?

Of course Imus is not a racist. He is just a shock jock who pushed the rule-breaking, politically incorrect humour envelope way too far. (Howard Stern may be better protected; his long-term side-kick, Robin Quivers, is a woman of colour and he himself is Jewish.)

I would also suggest that the problem which Imus has run up against was in part created by the young Black urban music culture itself. We have, afterall, been listening to black men referring to their women as hos for a couple of decades now. It will become more difficult to remember to prize individuals who seem to hold themselves and those who belong to them in contempt. Perhaps this stupid white man fell into this trap.

How well do you know Imus?

I really need to leave this thread. So, black men or the only ones that either refer to women as hos? Aren't young white males are the main purchasers of hip hop music. And I guess it's okay for Tommy Lee, Kid Rock and them to objectify women. It's okay for Paris and Nicole to make sex tapes and call either other bitches and hos. And it's okay for Imus to call young black women hos b/c some black men do. I get it now:phanvan

You have got to be kidding me. We must be living in too different worlds. And the sad thing is you actually believe what you are saying (typing). You need to come out of your bubble and live in the real world.

Since when is it more difficult for a white male to get into minorities......Stop dreaming...

No, no, YOU have got to be kidding me. Have you seen admission demographics for major universities, heard of affirmative action, read the newspaper, or stepped out of your shelter in the last, oh, 5 or 6 years compared to 15-20 years ago? Didn't think so.

Your nieve optimism is appreciated, but sorely mistaken.

The big difference, as I see it, is that rappers are not speaking TO a particular group of individuals; Imus was. I don't like it when hip-hop artists denigrate women in general. I wish women would band together and boycot that garbage. But I would like it even less if Snoop Dog put out a CD in which he called me, personally, a "ho".

Carlene: I agree w/you mostly on this one. When the rappers or any musical group use degrading lyrics they ARE singling out a specific group, be it women, gays, etc. When they sing about a 'ho', I would assume that they're singing about more offten then not, an african american female (obviously having no respect for their own female relatives). The almighty dollar would work as far as a boycott. I know it's easy to say, well then turn it off, but it's not that easy. You've got so many kids home alone after school, on breaks, etc. that they can't be monitered 24/7. Personally, I think BOTH Imus and rappers are wrong in that respect. Imus should have just thought before he spoke! That was just plain stupidity!

Plus, how can you automatically assume I came from a upper-class family. Is it because of my more conservative views?

I'm sorry, my dear, what I assumed was that you would understand that the term "overprivledged" applies to ALL white men in our society, regardless of economic background.

Plus, how can you automatically assume I came from a upper-class family. Is it because of my more conservative views?

I'm sorry, what I assumed was that you would understand that the term "overprivledged" applies to ALL white men in our society, regardless of economic background.

Meow! Meow!

I am changing careers. Until the spring classes start, I am working as a sub/teacher at my child’s school. The rap music is a big influence on the kids!!!!

You can hear our African-American children calling each other “nigger””Ho” ,

the Hispanic ones calling each other “beaners””F..Immigrant

and the Anglo children calling each other “cracker”, ”bitches” etc…

It got so bad, that the counselors called for an assembly. It was hard for the children to understand why it was wrong to call each other names.

“But I’m of the same race as he/she is, and I’m not offended

“ Is just a joke”

“Is cool with me if he calls me a HO”

“Oh my friends knows that I don’t mean it “that way.

This and other comments were the ones that we heard that day. They don’t comprehend the real meaning of this words.The singers are not punished for using them, and this singers are “successful” and rich. So what is wrong with this???

Is this freedom of speech? Is this just an innocent, jokingly way to call each race a little name?

My children wouldn’t even think about doing that. They know exactly why this is wrong. Is it the children’s fault, or the parents fault for allowing this kind of music at home???

:phanvan

How well do you know Imus?

I really need to leave this thread. So, black men or the only ones that either refer to women as hos? Aren't young white males are the main purchasers of hip hop music. And I guess it's okay for Tommy Lee, Kid Rock and them to objectify women. It's okay for Paris and Nicole to make sex tapes and call either other bitches and hos. And it's okay for Imus to call young black women hos b/c some black men do. I get it now:phanvan

You misread my earlier comments. I did say that Imus blew it when he made it when he made that comment. I also say that he is not a racist and that that wisecrack, though offensive, came from a different place. He was trying, and failing badly, to be hip and humorous. As to individuals whom you mention above, the young white males who purchase rap music, those dudes are Imus's target audience. An examination of his idiotic remark displays that he was talking to dudes: he was commenting on the results of a b-ball game and he used the term ho.

As to how well I know Don Imus, well, I used to listen to Howard Stern's show for a couple of years and I read one of his books. Through studying Stern I gathered that Imus, his only rival, dealt in the same kind of tasteless yet sometimes wildly funny schtick. You see, I do have a frat boy's sense of humour and happen to detest soft rock, middle of the road music.

Carlene: I agree w/you mostly on this one. When the rappers or any musical group use degrading lyrics they ARE singling out a specific group, be it women, gays, etc.

There is a big difference between rappers who refer to ALL women (or even all black women) as whores and Don Imus, who insulted a much, much smaller, much more specific group of people - the women's basketball team of Reutger's University. These are women with names and faces. It would be about the same thing as him calling Condoleeza Rice a "nappy-headed ho". How well do you think that would have gone over?

You misread my earlier comments. I did say that Imus blew it when he made it when he made that comment. I also say that he is not a racist and that that wisecrack, though offensive, came from a different place. He was trying, and failing badly, to be hip and humorous.

I would not take kindly to being called a "bitch" or a "whore" by anyone. I would not be amused, no matter who made the remark. Call me old fashioned, but if a talk show host went on the air and called me, personally, a whore, I'd want his ass fired, too. But that's just me.

You don't think calling a group of black women "nappy-headed hos" is intended to degrade them? How would you feel about someone who went on national television and called your mother a whore?

I do believe that we have to look at context and provenance when we examine things which people say. I have heard comedians call each other's mother a ho. On South Park, a show which never fails to push the envelope, Cartman's mother is routinely called a crack whore, the Black kid is called Token, and all groups get dissed.

When an offensive word is said out of hatred and not out of ignorance or in order to make - rightly or wrongly - a comedic point we know it and it is for these individuals that we should save our righteous anger. Those who speak out of ignorance or go too far when trying to create comedy should also be educated by the public of course but we should not lose sight of the fact that these people are not true hate-mongerers. They are simply idiots.

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