Let me preface by saying we have done everything we can to help our daughter. Dr.'s, nutritionists, personal trainers etc, since she was 8. Nothing has worked. We think she's beautiful the way she is! This is something she has wanted and been begging us for! She wants to enjoy her teenage years, make friends and enjoy life. She doesn't feel like her physical appearance reflects who she is in the inside and feels like it holds her back. She is very depressed and begging us for surgery. We cannot afford a US doctor. I need to know who you would go to in Mexico if this was your 13 year old. This would be for sleeve.Please I don't need mean or critical comments. Thank you

More than anything else, whatever our opinion, lets be KIND and RESPECTFUL here. God Bless.

Just throwing this in there, but i was an obese 13 year old and i had friends, boyfriends, and a normal social life. Sometimes you need a little struggle to strive for success.

I love them at Baja Med in Tijuana Mexico. Dr. Serrano is the most caring, consciencious medical practitioner i have ever encountered. He really has his patients best interest in mind. I had Dr. Gonzalez and Dr. Serrano perform my surgery. with a daughter who is over weight and struggling I think you have every right to look at this option. I wish you the very best and please let me know how it goes.

I am speechless

Any updates on this story? Made any decisions? You& your daughter have my full support in whatever you decide. I'm not sure a 13 yo can make the proper decisions but I also know a 60 yo who probably can't. I would really want my youth back as a thin person.

I was sleeved 2/19 by Dr. Ponce De Leon in TJ, his team was great very caring. The level of care was awesome!! Good luck to your daughter!

I think that its a good option coupled with nutritionist consultations and coaching from you.

Make sure she has the right team in place and the right support group and I would say it would be worth it to consult with a psychologist to see if she is mentally ready for everything it entails.

Dammit say it like i feel. My daughter gouged out a piece of her leg at 14 on rusty gym equipment. I opted not for plastic surgery. When your daughter becomes an adult let HER choose WLS.

Just thinking about your daughter hoping that you are both well.

this is major surgery and there can be problems later....why not try lap band...few yrs back I was not ready for this drastic surgery...I had a lap band instead. Now after two years I have gone for a sleeve.

all the best.

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I went to dr lopez in mexico and I am very satisfied with his work . My 14yr old sister is also considering doing it for the same reasons as your daughter she went with me during my stay good luck

Just wanted to update you all on our decision. After much thought, prayer and research we decided to go with Dr. Sergio Quinones for both my husband and my daughter. My husband needed the band removed as well as getting the sleeve done. My husband went last Tuesday and his experience was far better than mine and I had mine done at a Bariatric Center of Excellence! I'm starting to think that the scary stories we hear about Mexico are a bunch of crap or at the very least the media only covers the horror stories.

He was picked up at airport, driven to the hospital, had the surgery, stayed 2 nights in a private room, driven to a hotel and driven to the airport the next day. He had no problems and is recovering far quicker than I did.

His experience was great and said he feels 100% about my daughter going. Keep in mind he was totally against going to TJ and thought I had lost my mind.

My daughter has surgery in 2 days. She saw my recovery(I had complications) and she has seen her dads. She is so excited to be able to exercize without the pain that the extra weight causes. She's excited to be healthy and active. I'm grateful for all those concerned and for the well wishes. I will keep you posted on her recovery. P. S. The total for both of them was $9500 for surgery and $600 for us all to fly to SAn Diego. The meds were $240.

Don’t compound your past mistakes as a parent. Quit giving the kid everything she wants. How in the world would a 13 year old know the pros and cons of this surgery or be able to handle the aftermath. A lock on the refrigerator is much cheaper than a Mexican surgeon.