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Essence33    90

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Girl' date=' do you! Just don't get out of hand - don't let him flip, twist or make you bend too awkwardly and you should be fine. Anything within reason.[/quote']

Lol...I won't...when I do finally find that special person. Thanks!!

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Without going into too much detail... get your freak on. The band can take it' date=' trust me.

*grins*[/quote']

Mis73...yes, I totally understand. Lol Yes, I do trust you on that. :) Thanks!!

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i was sore right after surgery - but once healed' date=' sky's the limit![/quote']

I like that response. Sky's the limit for real!! :)

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Are you sure you need to be banded? If I could make any of those moves' date=' I'd leave the band alone ;)

In any event, it shouldn't affect your insides, and that's where the band is. The port is another story it's right below the skin surface, so just be careful when it comes to the location of where your port is and you should be fine.

Rock on girl![/quote']

Lmao...I'm sure. I'll definitely be careful. Thanks!

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Sorry... I made my partner wait 3 weeks after surgery. By then' date=' we were both ready. I don't ever hang from the chandelier or anything like that but it was very active. No port pain to report!![/quote']

Lol....hang from chandelier....I know what you mean. No port pain works for me. I'll wait probably that long too, just to be safe.

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And going into detail..I have done every move man made under the stars...port's still intact <WINK>

Your port is well sutured (unless your doc specified otherwise). So' date=' just like working out, sex and the fun positions it puts us in will not impact the port.

I have gotten pregnant on the band. Beware, it makes you fertile (but maybe it was position 2,345 that did it)

And girl, sex is the first forum post we all opened up..are you kidding me LMAO[/quote']

Ha ha ha ha ha....girl every move is up to my alley. Lol! My workouts will probably be the many positions I long for. I'm happy I've gotten everyone inputs. Thanks!!

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If your definition of kinky sex is edge play there are some general ground rules for the band:

1. No impact play on the port area as it's tender and can get damaged/flipped

2. If bondage is involved stay away from the port area as well. Also- bondage after eating- watch with ropes on the band area.

3. Inversions -to each his own- but on a full stomach with a band- No

4. Needles- not near the port area.

5. It may help to circle your port area in marker both laying down and standing.

6. Tens- not in the area of the port or band

7. Cupping - again not in the port or band area

Fire is okay on the skin above the port as is wax and wand.

These are just a few dos and don'ts off the top of my head.

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This post made me lol :) Not sure when you were banded but I would say go for it!! I have had no problems but maybe you should check with your surgeon? There is a whole thread for pregnant banders so yes you can still get pregnant with the lap band. it's a big reason some women chose this WLS vs other options because you can still have babies! :)

Lol...happy you were lol, because I was when I post the topic. Ok, I understand. I haven't been banded yet, not until Feb 2014, but I'm preparing myself for when I do. Thanks, for the info. :)

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Lol I would save some of those moves till after some weight it shed. It keeps getting better and better!

Lol...your right. I'll keep that in mind.

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When it's my time to leave this earth' date=' can I look you up? This is how I always wanted to go :wub:[/quote']

Lol.....

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If your definition of kinky sex is edge play there are some general ground rules for the band:

1. No impact play on the port area as it's tender and can get damaged/flipped

2. If bondage is involved stay away from the port area as well. Also- bondage after eating- watch with ropes on the band area.

3. Inversions -to each his own- but on a full stomach with a band- No

4. Needles- not near the port area.

5. It may help to circle your port area in marker both laying down and standing.

6. Tens- not in the area of the port or band

7. Cupping - again not in the port or band area

Fire is okay on the skin above the port as is wax and wand.

These are just a few dos and don'ts off the top of my head.

Wow....I'll keep that in mind. Thanks... :)

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Thanks all for the honest responses. It was nice reading everyones inputs. :)

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