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i use to love sex before RNY

I see everyone posting about their sex life lol so ill post about my problem.......

Before surgery i use to wanna do it 3 times a day literally before work on lunch break and after dinner for the last three years now its different after surgery it has changed to like once a week three at the most I'm 22 my man is 41 so idk what's going on with me I haven't gave him oral sex in for ever now he thinking I don't want him anymore but its not true its just my interest in it is slowly going away we have a 2 year old even after having our child it was still the same but not now so can someone give me ideas on what can possibly help me

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I am 5 weeks out and was just researching this today. My sex drive has gone way down since I had surgery. It has nothing to do with him, but I am just really tired most of the time when I get home from work. I wish I had an answer for you, as I too and in the same boat.

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I am 5 weeks out and was just researching this today. My sex drive has gone way down since I had surgery. It has nothing to do with him' date=' but I am just really tired most of the time when I get home from work. I wish I had an answer for you, as I too and in the same boat.[/quote']

Lol its kinda weird

It's your hormones. After my surgery my hormones were so out of whack. I didn't lose my sex drive but I was so mean and moody. It was so bad I didn't like myself. They will get back to normal. Some people take longer than others.

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It's your hormones. After my surgery my hormones were so out of whack. I didn't lose my sex drive but I was so mean and moody. It was so bad I didn't like myself. They will get back to normal. Some people take longer than others.

Yeah I thought about that you probably right

Yeah I thought about that you probably right

There's another thread on this subject and this is very common.

Sorry ladies the sex went down hill. I'm hubby is also older. It's the changes we are going threw that's making us nuts.

Sorry ladies the sex went down hill. I'm hubby is also older. It's the changes we are going threw that's making us nuts.

I thought it was going well for you, Mami-

It's going well but I was saying that I understand how you feel cuz I felt like that in the beginning.

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It's going well but I was saying that I understand how you feel cuz I felt like that in the beginning.

Mami you should post before and after pictures I noticed yu said you was 115 I would love to get down that far

Mami you should post before and after pictures I noticed yu said you was 115 I would love to get down that far

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Mamasita

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You look amazing!

Mami you look great! Then and now! Wish il get there one day inspiring!

Mami you look great! Then and now! Wish il get there one day inspiring!

Thanks you will get there... I gotta find more photos of me cuz`seem like this is the only photo of me. The other photos i'm neither pregnant or something. lmbo

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