I see everyone posting about their sex life lol so ill post about my problem.......

Before surgery i use to wanna do it 3 times a day literally before work on lunch break and after dinner for the last three years now its different after surgery it has changed to like once a week three at the most I'm 22 my man is 41 so idk what's going on with me I haven't gave him oral sex in for ever now he thinking I don't want him anymore but its not true its just my interest in it is slowly going away we have a 2 year old even after having our child it was still the same but not now so can someone give me ideas on what can possibly help me

Mami you look great! Then and now! Wish il get there one day inspiring!

Me too

It's your hormones. After my surgery my hormones were so out of whack. I didn't lose my sex drive but I was so mean and moody. It was so bad I didn't like myself. They will get back to normal. Some people take longer than others.

Uh oh...I didn't know about that! I'm already moody and I haven't even had my surgery yet! And if my sex drive plummets, I don't know what I'll do! ! ! I know everyone is different though so I'm hoping I don't have to go through that!

Uh oh...I didn't know about that! I'm already moody and I haven't even had my surgery yet! And if my sex drive plummets' date=' I don't know what I'll do! ! ! I know everyone is different though so I'm hoping I don't have to go through that![/quote']

Yes everyone is different. I hope it doesn't happen to you. If it does at least you'll know what it is..