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Ok so a lots been going on in the last week for me and my surgery is supposed to be October 23rd if all goes well... Ok so last weekend my hubby wrecked his truck thank god he's ok but it's just a added stress right now then thurs my ex but still a amazing friend died at 28 i was unable to fly to Texas for funeral which has me even more upset he was a huge support in everything I did we were awesome together never a dull moment we just couldn't do real life like play house and we both had kids our realtionship was based on fun and we had so much of it my heart is broken I was supposed to meet him tomorrow after my appt to catch up on life he worked two weeks here other two he was in Texas and he flies into airport close to dr but anyway it's teaching me a huge lesson and I know I need to embrass this amazing change in my life just wish I was able to call him and he was here again.... On other note im going to get a will made before surgery I am only 21 but also have a 3 year old and I know that tomorrow's not ever guanteed take every breath god gives you for what it's worth <3

Hubby's truck

My amazing friend gone but never forgotten

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So sorry for your loss. Glad your husband is ok the truck is awful he was very lucky

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so sorry for the loss of a good friend. I am glad your husband is ok!!

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I'm am truly sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you. We are all here for you. Even if it to listen to you vent.

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Sorry for your loss. That truck looks really bad...I'm glad your hubby is ok.

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Thanks everyone really means a lot just weighed in waiting for approval hope I find out sooner than later the wait sucks...and hubby is extremely lucky on a busted lip someone was watching over him thanks again guys and good bless

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Ok so a lots been going on in the last week for me and my surgery is supposed to be October 23rd if all goes well... Ok so last weekend my hubby wrecked his truck thank god he's ok but it's just a added stress right now then thurs my ex but still a amazing friend died at 28 i was unable to fly to Texas for funeral which has me even more upset he was a huge support in everything I did we were awesome together never a dull moment we just couldn't do real life like play house and we both had kids our realtionship was based on fun and we had so much of it my heart is broken I was supposed to meet him tomorrow after my appt to catch up on life he worked two weeks here other two he was in Texas and he flies into airport close to dr but anyway it's teaching me a huge lesson and I know I need to embrass this amazing change in my life just wish I was able to call him and he was here again.... On other note im going to get a will made before surgery I am only 21 but also have a 3 year old and I know that tomorrow's not ever guanteed take every breath god gives you for what it's worth <3

Hubby's truck

My amazing friend gone but never forgotten

Such a handsome guy sorry thus happen

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Prayers being said for you for comfort. A life taken way to soon.

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