Just wanted to see how many guys are actually on here. Would be nice to voice our thoughts, opinions, updates more often.

I got my first compliment from one the guys my husband hunts with...I told him thank you then told my husband he could learn a few things fron his friend....lol

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U go girl!!!

Our hearts go out to you Tommy. We know how tough this is living "large," but it has to be especially tough on the road back without support from your spouse.

I thinking he is afraid ...I dont what for...

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Probably because you are a hottie and he doesn't want to have to compete with that. Now he feels threatened that he might not be worthy to have somebody like you and its easier for him to just push away rather than stand in there and support you.

The funny part about this all was that last summer he lost 75 pounds, on his own working out all the time, the whole time I was supportive, told him he looked awesome, mean while I was going through all my stuff to get ready for surgery. Even my co workers and clients give me compliments ..Even on New Years I asked him to take me dance...yep that never happened......I dont know understand why he would want to push me away, I'm not going anywhere.....

Maybe he is just feeling threatened by your success?

I know my wife often feels left behind and left out of certain steps along the way of my journey.

We have some real insightful men on here :-) I'm impressed!! Tammy they are right...you are hot and hes just feeling insecure and scared. He better start giving you those compliments you deserve or else they'll start pouring in elsewhere.

Ya the guys seem really cool on here...well I guess I will take the compliments where I can get them.. Thanks guys!!

Tammy...we love you for you!!!

aawwww thank you!!

Im going to have to start singing the Im sexy and I know it song....lol

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Or just start shaking your money maker. LOL!!!

I dont think I have one if those anymore...lmao

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And what would that be?