Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Recommended Posts

Hi, i just signed up and this is my first post. I have a ton of questions, but trying to figure out what to ask first. Guess I would love to hear from folks who have had this surgery who started out at 400 pounds. Had my first dr. appt. 19 days ago. I am 5' 4" and I have lost 10.2 pounds since then on the diet they gave me. I feel so much better, but really thought it was a lot more than 10.2 pounds. Trying not to be disappointed. I originally wanted to have the gastric bypass surgery, but my doctor decided the sleeve would be better for me with the meds I take for RA and will probably always have to take. I was very disappointed. It seems to me that even if I lose the weight they say (around 65% of my excess weight, I will still be very large. Anybody been through this? I am open for all comments and suggestions. Oh, I guess I should tell you, I have had all the pre op testing done and waiting for ok from my insurance. Supposedly this Friday is the deadline for them to respond. Thanks :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Hi, i just signed up and this is my first post. I have a ton of questions, but trying to figure out what to ask first. Guess I would love to hear from folks who have had this surgery who started out at 400 pounds. Had my first dr. appt. 19 days ago. I am 5' 4" and I have lost 10.2 pounds since then on the diet they gave me. I feel so much better, but really thought it was a lot more than 10.2 pounds. Trying not to be disappointed. I originally wanted to have the gastric bypass surgery, but my doctor decided the sleeve would be better for me with the meds I take for RA and will probably always have to take. I was very disappointed. It seems to me that even if I lose the weight they say (around 65% of my excess weight, I will still be very large. Anybody been through this? I am open for all comments and suggestions. Oh, I guess I should tell you, I have had all the pre op testing done and waiting for ok from my insurance. Supposedly this Friday is the deadline for them to respond. Thanks :)

I started at 416. 10.2 lbs in 19 days is nothing to dismiss, you did good!

At one of my first visits with my doctor I told him I wanted to weight 175lbs. He kinda blew me off and explained that 50% of my excess weight was more realistic - to me, that still left me large. If I'm going to weigh 296 I might as well weigh 396.

I lost 50lbs in the months before surgery. He was more enthusiastic about my goal when he saw i was willing to put in effort to make it happen.

Ask your questions. :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

How much weight did you lose prior to the surgery? I see you're down to 323 from 416. That's really impressive. Surgery was in May? How was recovery? A lot of pain? I have RA and fibro and I take a lot of meds. My dr. felt I would do better with the sleeve vs. Reux N Y because they were concerned that long term I might develop an ulcer in my pouch. Kind of disappointed because I know you lose more weight with the Reux N Y. I am only 5' 4" tall.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Good luck on your journey . You can lose as much as you decide...I am 10 months post op and have lost 188lbs. I started at 368, and am 5'3.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I haven't had the sleeve yet. But, I have a very plentiful supply of friends and co-workers who have had it done. All have had varying amounts of success. It really depends on "getting your head right" and once you get to that 50-60% mark realizing you may have to count calories or do a more traditional weight loss plan. The sleeve is one tool. It is not the end all, be all for many people. This is coming from my observations and what has been relayed to me by the people in my life who are a very valued support system with many different views. This seems to be the general consensus. The ones who are really getting to their goal are working hard. But they report feeling really good and having more energy to put towards working for it. Also, the emotional aspect helps as they are not so demoralized and ashamed to go to a gym.

And more than one of these people were in excess of 400 pounds. It's very achievable, but may take hard work.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

How much weight did you lose prior to the surgery? I see you're down to 323 from 416. That's really impressive. Surgery was in May? How was recovery? A lot of pain? I have RA and fibro and I take a lot of meds. My dr. felt I would do better with the sleeve vs. Reux N Y because they were concerned that long term I might develop an ulcer in my pouch. Kind of disappointed because I know you lose more weight with the Reux N Y. I am only 5' 4" tall.

50lbs lost prior to surgery. My recovery was less eventful than some here. The worst part of the journey was the two-week liquid-only preop diet. The first 4 days I was angry, bitter, and wanted to sue people. :lol: On the 5th day i work up feeling better that before I had started the diet.

The worst part of surgery for me was the first hour. I had a gas pain that would no go away. They saw i was in discomfort, offered me pain meds, I took them, and i later was cracking jokes with people as they wheeled me down the hallway to my room. The gas pain lasted off and on for a few days replaced by the feeling like I had done too many situps the day before. Pain was off and on, easily relieved with liquid hydrocodone that was prescribed to me. All in all, more discomfort than pain - i was off of work for 3 weeks. I consider the first week recovery followed by two weeks of vacation.

I was in the hospital a little more than 24 hours. I left with instructions to no longer take my metformin, diovan, and lansoprazole.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Eve411

      April Surgery
      Am I the only struggling to get weight down. I started with weight of 297 and now im 280 but seem to not lose more weight. My nutrtionist told me not to worry about the pounds because I might still be losing inches. However, I do not really see much of a difference is this happen to any of you, if so any tips?
      Thanks
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Clueless_girl

      Well recovering from gallbladder removal was a lot like recovering from the modified duodenal switch surgery, twice in 4 months yay 🥳😭. I'm having to battle cravings for everything i shouldn't have, on top of trying to figure out what happens after i eat something. Sigh, let me fast forward a couple of months when everyday isn't a constant battle and i can function like a normal person again! 😞
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • KeeWee

      It's been 10 long years! Here is my VSG weight loss surgiversary update..
      https://www.ae1bmerchme.com/post/10-year-surgiversary-update-for-2024 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Aunty Mamo

      Iʻm roughly 6 weeks post-op this morning and have begun to feel like a normal human, with a normal human body again. I started introducing solid foods and pill forms of medications/supplements a couple of weeks ago and it's really amazing to eat meals with my family again, despite the fact that my portions are so much smaller than theirs. 
      I live on the island of Oʻahu and spend a lot of time in the water- for exercise, for play,  and for spiritual & mental health. The day I had my month out appointment with my surgeon, I packed all my gear in my truck, anticipating his permission to get back in the ocean. The minute I walked out of that hospital I drove straight to the shore and got in that water. Hallelujah! My appointment was at 10 am. I didn't get home until after 5 pm. 
      I'm down 31 pounds since the day of surgery and 47 since my pre-op diet began, with that typical week long stall occurring at three weeks. I'm really starting to see some changes lately- some of my clothing is too big, some fits again. The most drastic changes I notice however are in my face. I've also noticed my endurance and flexibility increasing. I was really starting to be held up physically, and I'm so grateful that I'm seeing that turn around in such short order. 
      My general disposition lately is hopeful and motivated. The only thing that bugs me on a daily basis still is the way those supplements make my house smell. So stink! But I just bought a smell proof bag online that other people use to put their pot in. My house doesn't stink anymore. 
       
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Oh yeah, something I wanted to rant about, a billing dispute that cropped up 3 months ago.
      Surgery was in August of 2023. A bill shows up for over $7,000 in January. WTF? I asks myself. I know that I jumped through all of the insurance hoops and verified this and triple checked that, as did the surgeon's office. All was set, and I paid all of the known costs before surgery.
      A looong story short, is that an assistant surgeon that was in the process of accepting money from my insurance company touched me while I was under anesthesia. That is what the bill was for. But hey, guess what? Some federal legislation was enacted last year to help patients out when they cannot consent to being touched by someone out of their insurance network. These types of bills fall under something called, "surprise billing," and you don't have to put up with it.
      https://www.cms.gov/nosurprises
      I had to make a lot of phone calls to both the surgeon's office and the insurance company and explain my rights and what the maximum out of pocket costs were that I could be liable for. Also had to remind them that it isn't my place to be taking care of all of this and that I was going to escalate things if they could not play nice with one another.
      Quick ending is that I don't have to pay that $7,000+. Advocate, advocate, advocate for yourself no matter how long it takes and learn more about this law if you are ever hit with a surprise bill.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×