Offended? Dating and weight.

[SML1997 308]

We need your understanding and forgiveness, and you need to give it or you will be lonely and frustrated looking for Mr. Perfect.....cause he's gay.

Uh...Butterbean.... that was HILARIOUS.....

It's very true...there are no Mr. Perfect..... Now with that said....sending you a video of him calling you a "Big Girl" is just not smart. I don't care how big you are....with all the wonderful qualities you possess....that's only adjective he could think of was Big..... How about beautiful, gorgeous, intelligent, wonderful, thoughtful, sexy...and the list goes on.....I mean..that's just my thought....

From your profile pic...they did have one thing right...you're really pretty...now having said that....I am sure you have no problems attracting the opposite sex and could probably do without this guy.

Good luck to you =)

[Bmordan 16]

Does he know that you had the surgery? I've been speaking to a guy and he knows how I look because we met 5yrs ago and always kept in touch via FB and IG but now we speak everyday but I don't want to hang out until after my surgery which is this Monday the 8th..he doesn't know I'm having surgery tho. I want to hang out when I've lost a few pounds and feel better about myself.

[Kelly1334 52]

Does he know that you had the surgery? I've been speaking to a guy and he knows how I look because we met 5yrs ago and always kept in touch via FB and IG but now we speak everyday but I don't want to hang out until after my surgery which is this Monday the 8th..he doesn't know I'm having surgery tho. I want to hang out when I've lost a few pounds and feel better about myself.

He knows be has surgery because its on my Facebook. but I'm not sure if he knows exactly what surgery. I did meet him pre surgery when I actually felt more confident, oddly enough.

[Kelly1334 52]

Thanks guy, I appreciate the feed back!

[josefina 8]

Well, how do you feel about the friend? His first response was, "the pretty one". Lol!

Anyway, you should talk to the guy and see if he realizes what he did and if he sincerely is sorry.

Go with the friend!! Hahah just kidding, cut the guy a break

[Oregondaisy 2,019]

Do you even like this guy? Do you hope you two will get together? If not, then just chalk it up as guys are stupid. I think big girl sounds better than fat girl, so he was trying to be polite. But I don't get the sense you even like him, so it shouldn't really matter.

[bellabloom 2,467]

"That big girl" could be a compliment in his eyes. Lots of men prefer larger women. LOTS of them.