DEALING WITH ATTENTION

[NewKristen 356]

Ive just notice that my husband is all of a sudden jealous!! He wants me to be all over him or him all over me and to be honest its a little annoying!!! About the compliments I sometime dont know whether they are sincere or if they are just blowing smoke!! But I like the whole guys are checking me out and I love the little bit of confidence ive gotten in myself!! But I hope and pray that me n my hubby stay together forvever because he loved me at my worst he looked past the looks and loved me for me!!

Yeah, I can see why he would be insecure. He probably just needs a little reassurance that he will still be enough or you!

[fyre_storm 1,412]

I don't get any.... Lol

[No game 14,436]

I don't get any.... Lol

Yes you do! I watch you when you sleep 0_0

[*Dean* 1,594]

Most people flirt. Sometimes it's with genuine intent. Often it's messing about. Take it as a compliment. You don't need to reciprocate.

As for husbands being more attentive or 'all over you' I wouldn't think that it is necessarily jealousy based.

I think it's perfectly normal that if your partner is all of a sudden in better shape, looking after themselves better, dressing better and with new found self confidence that it's going to push all the right buttons. I don't think it means they love you any more or less than before.

[mark! 449]

Same way I do now, flash my ring finger and say very happily taken, go home and smack my wife on her ass. Even now at my current weight, I deal with "badge bunnies" on an at least weekly basis, and seen some of the guys who are good looking deal with the crap, it's funny, and annoying all at the same time. It's just part of life. When I was single, I ate it up, acted on it a few times, regret acting on it a few times too as I'm apparently attracted to some crazy ladies, but as a married man, take it as a compliment, not think anything in to it, and leave it at that. My wife is who I want to be with for the rest of my life, and I'll be damned if I'm going to do something that would risk me losing the love of my life. She's been my rock through everything.

[fyre_storm 1,412]

Mark every time I read your name I feel like I'm screaming it lol

[AussieLady 521]

I don't get any.... Lol

Hey Fyre, I love your new look, I'd give you some but...........................

[*Dean* 1,594]

Mark every time I read your name I feel like I'm screaming it lol

Was that flirting?? LMAO

[fyre_storm 1,412]

But what?! Lol thank you!

[mark! 449]

Mark every time I read your name I feel like I'm screaming it lol

Haha, I know. Everytime I try to just use Mark, it's taken, so I just started using mark! for all of my forums accounts.

[*Dean* 1,594]

I wear a wedding ring, but for me I'd never flash my ring finger. I'd find it awkward.

I don't mind the attention, at any weight. I like flirting. I love my wife and have no interest in ruining a great thing.

Just flirt, you know you all want to.....

[*Dean* 1,594]

Was that flirting?? LMAO

No ones screaming my name

[NewKristen 356]

No ones screaming my name

DEAN!!!!

There, last post before I nod off. Ha ha!

[NewKristen 356]

Haha' date=' I know. Everytime I try to just use Mark, it's taken, so I just started using mark! for all of my forums accounts.[/quote']

It's my last name, so I keep thinking it's me! Ha ha.

[JeffA70 200]

Most people flirt. Sometimes it's with genuine intent. Often it's messing about. Take it as a compliment. You don't need to reciprocate.

As for husbands being more attentive or 'all over you' I wouldn't think that it is necessarily jealousy based.

I think it's perfectly normal that if your partner is all of a sudden in better shape' date=' looking after themselves better, dressing better and with new found self confidence that it's going to push all the right buttons. I don't think it means they love you any more or less than before.[/quote']

^

This.