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Wow after reading a post here, I remembered that my DH took me to the hospital and left to go to work after my surgery and I really didn't have any visitors until my daughter picked me up after the second night. I had a lot of fun with my morphine pump, slept and didn't miss anyone. It was so nice to be left alone. :) Gosh how lucky was i....?

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I feel ur pain...stay tough..ur headed to a new u...if it means anything...im 8 days post op and im 45lbs down since my 2week pre op diet...ur doin this for u remember that...#staytuff

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You his have no idea just how u have lifted my sprits. Thank you so much for talking the time for each of you saying what you said! I'm so very grateful. Surgery went well i slept all day yesterday pain is not bad at all only when i stand or roll over. I sure hope ours the same when I'm off these meds!! Thanks again you all. Thanks from the bottom of my heart

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You his have no idea just how u have lifted my sprits. Thank you so much for talking the time for each of you saying what you said! I'm so very grateful. Surgery went well i slept all day yesterday pain is not bad at all only when i stand or roll over. I sure hope ours the same when I'm off these meds!! Thanks again you all. Thanks from the bottom of my heart

You got this!

With a positive attitude and the love and support from all these amazing people on this site you will go far!

Keep smiling!

Best wishes on you WLS journey

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You can do this! You have everyone's support on this forum. I use this as my support system, because I chose not to tell anyone but my hubby. Look thru this site as you go through the different phases. Use the search feature and look up things as you are going thru it; like depression, regrets, and other scary feelings you go thru at first. This will help you see that it is normal. Then when you realize that these are normal feelings and will pass you feel better. Hang in there we are all here for you!!!

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Hope all went well. To echo everyone you are not alone. This is something you do for YOU! Some people agree some don't but it is a choice. I found the support, advice and encouragement on this form has been incredible. Even more than my friends. Good luck to you on your journey to a new YOU

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How did it go?

It went very well thank you for checking. I'm doing very good saw the fox last week and everything logged fine and i was down 15 pounds

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Sometimes we have to do things alone and in the end our families who didn't stand by us are the ones who are going to have the biggest regrets. You are so strong to continuing this journey and this is one small step. Ask your hospital if they have a support group. I know the one I went to has this program called visiting angels where other wls patients mentor others. It sucks when we don't have our families backs, but it's their loss not ours. I hope that you have a speedy recovery and everything goes well.

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      Iʻm roughly 6 weeks post-op this morning and have begun to feel like a normal human, with a normal human body again. I started introducing solid foods and pill forms of medications/supplements a couple of weeks ago and it's really amazing to eat meals with my family again, despite the fact that my portions are so much smaller than theirs. 
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    • BeanitoDiego

      Oh yeah, something I wanted to rant about, a billing dispute that cropped up 3 months ago.
      Surgery was in August of 2023. A bill shows up for over $7,000 in January. WTF? I asks myself. I know that I jumped through all of the insurance hoops and verified this and triple checked that, as did the surgeon's office. All was set, and I paid all of the known costs before surgery.
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      Still purging all of the larger clothing. This morning, a shirt that I ADORED wearing ended up on top. Hard to let it go, but it was also hard to let go of those habits that also no longer serve my highest good. Onward and upward!
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