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I'm 29 years old and am scheduled to have surgery on October 31st. I'm both nervous and excited, like most I'm sure. My surgery will be done by Dr. Allain at Woman's Hospital in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. My current weight is 350 pounds at 5'6.

I will have to do a two week pre-op diet. The thing I am most nervous about the diet is that I will be traveling for four days of the diet. My husband is worried that traveling for work while doing this diet will be too stressful, but I'm choosing to look at it as a challenge. If I can't do this for 2 weeks, how am I going to manage this change for the rest of my life. So I'm going to give it all I've got!

I'm getting to the point where I can't help but think of all the things I'd like to eat before. I've been reading here for a few weeks now and it seems to be a fairly normal thought process. I'm trying my best to keep a firm grip on reality and address my food issues now rather than later. It's a long hard and painful look inside. I've been over weight since I was a small child and have a hard time imaging myself being any other way. The thought of being healthy brings me tears of happiness.

My husband and I hope this will increase our chances of having a baby as well and increase the chances of the pregnancy being a good one. I know whatever God has in store will be meant to be.

I've debated again and again if I should tell people about my decision to have WLS. Everyone I have told has been extremely supportive. So many people I have known have kept it a secret until after they started losing weight. Part of me can't help but feel embarrassed because its what feels natural and another parts wants to educate those around me and allow them to see my journey and be proud of this decision. Share with them my story and how hard it can be and what drives a person to the point of this drastic decision. For those here who have shared there journey, thank you! It's factual, inspiring and real! Behind every word is a person, thinking, feeling, experiencing or looking for a change.

These are just a few of the things that are whirling around in my mind as October 31st approaches. I'm not looking for judgement or to be judged, so please be kind. Any thoughts are welcome. I've seen some really great support on this site, and look forward to receiving the same. For me, this was the hardest choice I have ever made. I pray still that it is the right choice for me and my family.

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I will be three months post opt on Oct 4. I have no regrets about the surgery. I feel awesome! I have been honest and shared with those around me that I had gastric sleeve. Initially, when I told people they were more hesitant that I was going to Mexico for the surgery than actually having the surgery. I prayed about every aspect of having the surgery, going to Mexico and family support. God is so awesome! My surgery was complete in 38 minutes. Within a few hrs post opt I was up walking around- talking with others in the hall- eating ice chips and no PAIN!! I asked my husband if he was sure that I had really had surgery other than my incisions - I felt great! I thank God for a supportive husband and finding a great surgeon to help me loose the weight that I have battled with all of my life. As time approaches you may feel more nervous- I did. But the morning of my surgery- I woke with a great peace within and ready to begin a new life fully trusting that my God was with me through it all!!! And HE still is!!!

Sending prayers your way!!

Michelle

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I'm 29 years old and am scheduled to have surgery on October 31st. I'm both nervous and excited' date=' like most I'm sure. My surgery will be done by Dr. Allain at Woman's Hospital in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. My current weight is 350 pounds at 5'6.

I will have to do a two week pre-op diet. The thing I am most nervous about the diet is that I will be traveling for four days of the diet. My husband is worried that traveling for work while doing this diet will be too stressful, but I'm choosing to look at it as a challenge. If I can't do this for 2 weeks, how am I going to manage this change for the rest of my life. So I'm going to give it all I've got!

I'm getting to the point where I can't help but think of all the things I'd like to eat before. I've been reading here for a few weeks now and it seems to be a fairly normal thought process. I'm trying my best to keep a firm grip on reality and address my food issues now rather than later. It's a long hard and painful look inside. I've been over weight since I was a small child and have a hard time imaging myself being any other way. The thought of being healthy brings me tears of happiness.

My husband and I hope this will increase our chances of having a baby as well and increase the chances of the pregnancy being a good one. I know whatever God has in store will be meant to be.

I've debated again and again if I should tell people about my decision to have WLS. Everyone I have told has been extremely supportive. So many people I have known have kept it a secret until after they started losing weight. Part of me can't help but feel embarrassed because its what feels natural and another parts wants to educate those around me and allow them to see my journey and be proud of this decision. Share with them my story and how hard it can be and what drives a person to the point of this drastic decision. For those here who have shared there journey, thank you! It's factual, inspiring and real! Behind every word is a person, thinking, feeling, experiencing or looking for a change.

These are just a few of the things that are whirling around in my mind as October 31st approaches. I'm not looking for judgement or to be judged, so please be kind. Any thoughts are welcome. I've seen some really great support on this site, and look forward to receiving the same. For me, this was the hardest choice I have ever made. I pray still that it is the right choice for me and my family.

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I have been reading a lot of posts here too. I haven't found too many people judging others. I was worried about that too. We are all in the same boat. Trying to lose weight and live a happier healthy life. I just hope that I can be an example for others around me. I'm counting down my days until I get my sleeve....19 more days!!

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I will be three months post opt on Oct 4. I have no regrets about the surgery. I feel awesome! I have been honest and shared with those around me that I had gastric sleeve. Initially' date=' when I told people they were more hesitant that I was going to Mexico for the surgery than actually having the surgery. I prayed about every aspect of having the surgery, going to Mexico and family support. God is so awesome! My surgery was complete in 38 minutes. Within a few hrs post opt I was up walking around- talking with others in the hall- eating ice chips and no PAIN!! I asked my husband if he was sure that I had really had surgery other than my incisions - I felt great! I thank God for a supportive husband and finding a great surgeon to help me loose the weight that I have battled with all of my life. As time approaches you may feel more nervous- I did. But the morning of my surgery- I woke with a great peace within and ready to begin a new life fully trusting that my God was with me through it all!!! And HE still is!!!

Sending prayers your way!!

Michelle[/quote']

Thanks for the kind words Michelle. So glad your surgery was a breeze. I hope I'll be able to say the same.

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Yay for it being at the NEW hospital :)) good luck on your surgery!!!

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Yay for it being at the NEW hospital <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':)' />) good luck on your surgery!!!

I hope they have all the kinks worked out by then! I'd be afraid to be the first patient after the move for a major procedure.

Oddly enough having it at Woman's is cheaper than OLOL by over $1k. I was surprised. Every little bit helps when you are paying out of pocket!

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No kidding! They were too expensive out here for me so I went to New Iberia but I am now kindof regretting that since my post op appts are out there haha I didn't really think it all the way through I guess! My friend is having a section there on the 23rd lol so I'll scope it out for ya!

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You will be able to meet the challenge of the preop diet! Keep focused on your goal to have surgery. Re-read your post as affirmation to the many great things you and your husband will achieve.

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Daniele, we are sleeve sisters! Well... kinda. I'm 29 too and my surgery is October 29th. Im in NW Georgia so not too far away :) I am very nervous and I actually try to keep my mind off of it because the more I think about it, the more I question my decision. I have found myself "okaying" very poor eating habits because I think I'll never get to have the things I love ever again, which I know is not true because people talk about having "treats" in moderation and not often. I keep thinking about my "final meal" and what I want it to be. I have 18 days left until I start my 2 week pre op diet. I look forward to having these next few weeks to prepare myself. I wish you luck in your journey and keep me in mind if you find yourself needing support, you can send me a message.

Emily

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I'm 29 years old and am scheduled to have surgery on October 31st. I'm both nervous and excited' date=' like most I'm sure. My surgery will be done by Dr. Allain at Woman's Hospital in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. My current weight is 350 pounds at 5'6.

I will have to do a two week pre-op diet. The thing I am most nervous about the diet is that I will be traveling for four days of the diet. My husband is worried that traveling for work while doing this diet will be too stressful, but I'm choosing to look at it as a challenge. If I can't do this for 2 weeks, how am I going to manage this change for the rest of my life. So I'm going to give it all I've got!

I'm getting to the point where I can't help but think of all the things I'd like to eat before. I've been reading here for a few weeks now and it seems to be a fairly normal thought process. I'm trying my best to keep a firm grip on reality and address my food issues now rather than later. It's a long hard and painful look inside. I've been over weight since I was a small child and have a hard time imaging myself being any other way. The thought of being healthy brings me tears of happiness.

My husband and I hope this will increase our chances of having a baby as well and increase the chances of the pregnancy being a good one. I know whatever God has in store will be meant to be.

I've debated again and again if I should tell people about my decision to have WLS. Everyone I have told has been extremely supportive. So many people I have known have kept it a secret until after they started losing weight. Part of me can't help but feel embarrassed because its what feels natural and another parts wants to educate those around me and allow them to see my journey and be proud of this decision. Share with them my story and how hard it can be and what drives a person to the point of this drastic decision. For those here who have shared there journey, thank you! It's factual, inspiring and real! Behind every word is a person, thinking, feeling, experiencing or looking for a change.

These are just a few of the things that are whirling around in my mind as October 31st approaches. I'm not looking for judgement or to be judged, so please be kind. Any thoughts are welcome. I've seen some really great support on this site, and look forward to receiving the same. For me, this was the hardest choice I have ever made. I pray still that it is the right choice for me and my family.

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Daniele I have my surgery at Womans on the 17th of Oct.!! So excited we should meet each for added support!

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Daniele I have my surgery at Womans on the 17th of Oct.!! So excited we should meet each for added support!

Sounds good. There are a few people in the LA Sleevers post who have expressed interest in meeting up for support. I certainly need all the support I can get!

I am sure you are getting anxious!

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Sounds good. There are a few people in the LA Sleevers post who have expressed interest in meeting up for support. I certainly need all the support I can get!

I am sure you are getting anxious!

I am but looking forward to it. Make sure you keep me posted on the support group and how your doing!! We can do this girlie it's new I believe we can do it!!

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