Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Post Op September Sleevers, Roll Call



Recommended Posts

Hello Everyone, I am 13 days post op, down 34 pounds. I'm feeling much better, I don't have much pain at all. I decided to hv sex with hubby, well it was great and well over due, two wks almost. I was so worried I would e in so much pain but so happy it wasn't that type of pain. Has anyone experienced the opposite and do you all that that was too soon?

Yay for skinny sex!! LOL! But I am not ready to venture there yet...my incisions are still causing too much pain. Although I am positive my husband would LOVE for me to be ready...BTW, how much weight do you need to lose because your profile pic doesn't look like you need to lose ANY....

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Well, friends, today was the first day of soft solids and wow, it is hard. I made a Protein Shake at 9:30am and still haven't finished it. I have no idea how some of you can drink 2 of those in a day. And I have been so full that I am not even drinking my Water. Hardly going to the bathroom today which concerns me (and my kidneys!). Then this afternoon in my Quest to get more Protein I scrambled my first egg at about 2:20pm. I melted one wedge of Laughing Cow Queso Fresco and Chipotle cheese in with it to make it more mushy. OMG! Heaven! It tasted so good but still at 4:23pm can't finish it. I have given up after heating it up twice in the microwave. it just feels like it is sitting in a lump in my tummy. But now I am trying to drink another 8oz of Powerade just to get some liquids in. Who knew this was going to be so dang hard?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I am in north Dallas too. Had my surgery with dr Nicholson Forest park medical in frisco. U know baylor Plano has a support group that meets 2nd Wednesday of the month

Sent from my iPhone using VST

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I am in north Dallas too. Had my surgery with dr Nicholson Forest park medical in frisco. U know baylor Plano has a support group that meets 2nd Wednesday of the month

Sent from my iPhone using VST

Oh ok, ik Baylor Carrollton or maybe that is the one that has one - I need to go to one soon - I think it would help to see some people in person that might be goin thru the same thing as me... Wow you live around here to then - I stay off Frankford/Vail in that area... Well we need to meet up @ some point...

Sent from my iPhone using VST

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I think i may go to the support class in oct

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

zowie we welcome you

mufasa i feel you on that. we have free food inthe cafe we shall see

stallisa welcome glad you came over

mom how far out are you and maybe its to soon to add solids.

well guys i didi something really really bad today. i went to the store and got a cupcake. i ate it didnt feel anything but it was a little heavy in my tummy i now have diarriia but i dont know if its from that because i made some tuna with light mayo and relish and i have that vomit feeling in my chest just a little to notice. hummmmmmmmmmmm. im going to try the tuna again to make sure it wasnt that and now i dont want to see no sweets cake candy none of it yukkkkkkkk. wierd huh?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I started off at 248 and would like to get down to at least 140-150. I'm 210 now, last I checked. My pics do me much justice but I def need to loose weight.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

zowie we welcome you

mufasa i feel you on that. we have free food inthe cafe we shall see

stallisa welcome glad you came over

mom how far out are you and maybe its to soon to add solids.

well guys i didi something really really bad today. i went to the store and got a cupcake. i ate it didnt feel anything but it was a little heavy in my tummy i now have diarriia but i dont know if its from that because i made some tuna with light mayo and relish and i have that vomit feeling in my chest just a little to notice. hummmmmmmmmmmm. im going to try the tuna again to make sure it wasnt that and now i dont want to see no sweets cake candy none of it yukkkkkkkk. wierd huh?

They say the bad foods go down easier then healthy sometimes but I bet that cupcake tasted like heaven - you deserved it... & yea when I did tuna yesterday it had me feeling yuck so I won't be trying that again & today I just ate hard boiled eggs & I had no bad reaction...

Sent from my iPhone using VST

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I started off at 248 and would like to get down to at least 140-150. I'm 210 now' date=' last I checked. My pics do me much justice but I def need to loose weight.[/quote']

How tall are you?? I was 242 when I started pre-op & now down to 218 - cant wait to get under 200 & I'm short... Just 5' 1/2inch

Sent from my iPhone using VST

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Trust me I feel your pain, I have regretted it many days since having it on 9/12... I have had the same emotions that you have had... I pray it gets better for all who feel like this... Ik all you want is to be able to eat normal & not have any weird side effects... I can eat soft foods now but the weird stuck like feeling it has when it goes down has me not wanting to eat so trust me ik where come'n from... Sometimes I wish there was a reversal process or maybe even that they only took 1/2 our stomach not 80% of it...

We will get past these feelings though, just know your not alone in this, although all of here are in different places we are still here for each other from a distance....

Sent from my iPhone using VST

I just hate to vent about this but I am feeling so bad. I am going to continue to pray and when i see my doc i am going to ask him why he had to cut so much stomach out....LOL. Thanks so much for the support. I think that if i can get over the feeling of the little pain that i feel when i swallow i will be fine. Oh and the heartburn that i never had.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Yeah we will definitely plan on meeting and supporting each other as well. I live off of north Dallas tollway and windhaven not far from u. We can probably get together at the support group meeting 2nd Wednesday of the month. All of our new friends around Dfw

Sent from my iPhone using VST

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I feel that I did better today, I started using Gold Standard 100% whey Protein, I'm able to drink 8oz mixed with milk down in about 1/2 hour. I had one for Breakfast and lunch (it's easier to have one at work - I don't have to worry about dumping. For dinner I had 5 garbanzo Beans (cooked), 1 1/2 tablespoons of refried beans with melted cheddar cheese and 1 teaspoon of guacamole. It tasted so good I really wanted to eat more, but I got that heavy feeling in my throat and stopped. Maybe I'll try another tablespoon later tonight. Maybe I finally have this phase figured out?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • KeeWee

      It's been 10 long years! Here is my VSG weight loss surgiversary update..
      https://www.ae1bmerchme.com/post/10-year-surgiversary-update-for-2024 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Aunty Mamo

      Iʻm roughly 6 weeks post-op this morning and have begun to feel like a normal human, with a normal human body again. I started introducing solid foods and pill forms of medications/supplements a couple of weeks ago and it's really amazing to eat meals with my family again, despite the fact that my portions are so much smaller than theirs. 
      I live on the island of Oʻahu and spend a lot of time in the water- for exercise, for play,  and for spiritual & mental health. The day I had my month out appointment with my surgeon, I packed all my gear in my truck, anticipating his permission to get back in the ocean. The minute I walked out of that hospital I drove straight to the shore and got in that water. Hallelujah! My appointment was at 10 am. I didn't get home until after 5 pm. 
      I'm down 31 pounds since the day of surgery and 47 since my pre-op diet began, with that typical week long stall occurring at three weeks. I'm really starting to see some changes lately- some of my clothing is too big, some fits again. The most drastic changes I notice however are in my face. I've also noticed my endurance and flexibility increasing. I was really starting to be held up physically, and I'm so grateful that I'm seeing that turn around in such short order. 
      My general disposition lately is hopeful and motivated. The only thing that bugs me on a daily basis still is the way those supplements make my house smell. So stink! But I just bought a smell proof bag online that other people use to put their pot in. My house doesn't stink anymore. 
       
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Oh yeah, something I wanted to rant about, a billing dispute that cropped up 3 months ago.
      Surgery was in August of 2023. A bill shows up for over $7,000 in January. WTF? I asks myself. I know that I jumped through all of the insurance hoops and verified this and triple checked that, as did the surgeon's office. All was set, and I paid all of the known costs before surgery.
      A looong story short, is that an assistant surgeon that was in the process of accepting money from my insurance company touched me while I was under anesthesia. That is what the bill was for. But hey, guess what? Some federal legislation was enacted last year to help patients out when they cannot consent to being touched by someone out of their insurance network. These types of bills fall under something called, "surprise billing," and you don't have to put up with it.
      https://www.cms.gov/nosurprises
      I had to make a lot of phone calls to both the surgeon's office and the insurance company and explain my rights and what the maximum out of pocket costs were that I could be liable for. Also had to remind them that it isn't my place to be taking care of all of this and that I was going to escalate things if they could not play nice with one another.
      Quick ending is that I don't have to pay that $7,000+. Advocate, advocate, advocate for yourself no matter how long it takes and learn more about this law if you are ever hit with a surprise bill.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Some days I feel like an infiltrator... I'm participating in society as a "thin" person. They have no idea that I haven't always been one of them! 🤣
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • ChunkCat

      Thank you everyone for your well wishes! I totally forgot I wrote an update here... I'm one week post op today. I gained 15 lbs in water weight overnight because they had to give me tons of fluids to bring my BP up after surgery! I stayed one night in the hospital. Everything has been fine except I seem to have picked up a bug while I was there and I've been running a low grade fever, coughing, and a sore throat. So I've been hydrating well and sleeping a ton. So far the Covid tests are negative.
      I haven't been able to advance my diet past purees. Everything I eat other than tofu makes me choke and feels like trying to swallow rocks. They warned me it would get worse before it gets better, so lets hope this is all normal. I have my follow up on Monday so we'll see. Living on shakes and soup again is not fun. I had enough of them the first time!! LOL 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×