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All my life my weight has been a relationship issue because I feel fat or look fat or get fat. Kinda the biggest hurdle for me. Now I'm married and I was just slightly chubby when I met my hubby and then gained like 55 lbs over the years. I always thought he was disappointed about the weight gain, as I was.

So now after losing my 70 lbs I lost a couple more lbs on vacay and he hugged me tonight was kind said "AGHHHH" and I was like "WHAT?" and he said "I just don't want you to get toooooo thin". Which I'm not, I'm 5'1" and still weight 146.

But it was such a great thing to hear someone say. I'm like, can you say that like 200 times to me. Because my whole life men have been afraid of me GAINING too much weight and I've never had anyone worry I might get too thin.

It was just kinda funny.

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GOOD FOR YOU!!! Unfortunately, that is something we have had to wait a life time to hear. I can't wait untill it is me. Thanks for sharing your nice experience.

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What a great NSV! That is just so sweet!

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What a great NSV. Remember that story and tell it at your Golden Anniversary Party!

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That's a great NSV! :) You are almost at your goal- congrats!

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:wub: how sweet!

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Awwwwwwww, Love it. :)

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Aw, that is sooooo cute.

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