Tonight I made smoked mesquite chicken breasts on the grill for the family, then as I am clearing the plates and preparing a lunch tupperware for him, he says honey that's so good but that's how you ass got so big eating this kind of stuff(grilled chicken). Do any of you smell the ignorance? My reply was: "Well... at least I know I can lose this ass being ugly is so much worse!" LOL He came up behind me and gave me a hug, sometimes I wonder what screw is missing but I am not the therapist I am the wife! I should really have corrected him because it was all the cookies and cakes and whatever sugar cane derived element I could get my hands on. But my sleeve sisters....all that matters is that tomorrow I see the surgeon!!!!!WHOHOOOOOOOOO I just thought I'd share something extra with you guys since you have given me so much support, over the weekend we went shopping for stuff for the kids in a mall where there is a GNC, my husband told me to go ahead and start looking he would be right there...then later on in the car I find rolled up in a plastic bag tightly you will not believe what ladies....FAT BURNER from GNC...interesting because my husband does not have a weight problem I asked him about it and why he was hiding it from me and he said he wants to have a six pack again. Like I said before I am not the therapist just the wife but I wonder if this surgery is starting to cause fear and insecurity. I just wanted to throw this out there in case you have a situation similar to mine or just wanted to get a kick out of mine.

Can't nobody hold me down oh nooooooo...I got to keep on moving!

:-) Thanks for the post...made me laugh!

Oh so funny! You almost made my staples pop out LOL! Yes, my husband sounds alot like yours. He frequently made remarks when I would eat and always talked about me walking too slow and needing to exercise. He couldn't believe it when i actually did this surgery! I think he is little nervous now because several times he has said that I better not leave him when I get skinny HAHA!

Get ready for the surgery, it is not the easy way out! I just had mine this past wednesday. I am on all liquids and it is very hard. Not trying to scare you, just trying to make sure you are prepared. I didn't really realize how tough it would be. It is also an emotional roller coaster. Get ready for the ride of your life! I'm just now going up the first hill. I'm hopeing going downhill will be much easier.

too funny. I wish I were as quick witted Yeah, the husbands can be a piece of work -- my DH has made some interesting remarks that I choose to overlook because if I didn't I'd probably smack him -- and it is funny, my husband as a "renewed" interest in exercising . . . hmmmm. . . .

Gotta laugh......UGH!! Men, what is wrong with them sometimes? Sounds like something my husband would say. Apparently yours thinks he is a dietician too huh?? Of course they doesn't know anything. I will be cooking chicken Sausage on the grill (apparently he thinks it has the same nutrition as a Brat) and tells me I should be eating Cereal instead!!! Yeah, Frosted Flakes!! LOL! I guess the "whole grain" or whatever makes it a health food!!! UGH! My husband is a carb/sugar king!! I have no idea how he is not 400lbs!!

I have a feeling my husband is going to be insecure when I start losing weight. Of course you are going to be more happier and wanting to do more things in life besides hide in the house. I am thinking me being fat makes him feel safe, though I know he would rather have me thinner. I just better not get a ton of questioning when I want to go to the mall and buy new clothes. If I get accused of cheating or something stupid, I am going to flip out!!!