I had a Spouse's (my husband's active duty Air Force for those that don't know) club Breakfast this morning, and was so nervous that I had talked myself out of eating. I had told everyone that I had breakfast with my son earlier that morning ( I didn't really eat). I had walked around a huge conference area meeting with vendors, and socializing, so I knew that I needed to eat.

Once the other ladies at my table were chowing away at their breakfast burritos, fresh fruit, and hashbrowns, I decided to venture to the buffet line. I took a small portion of the sausage, hashbrowns, and some cantaloupe. All of it went down wonderfully, I mean it was a small amount 3-4oz total, and I wasn't "scared" of eating anymore. A lady in line said "Tiffany, you're being good." I whispered to her that I had surgery, and she said "Good for you, you're braver than me." She was the sweetest lady, and told me to not worry about eating a lot, she would eat enough for the both of us. She seemed to understand, and was very kind. I'm not too worried about people finding out I had surgery. I'm a really open person, and find it's easier to tell people rather than finding an alternative answer. Most people are generally open to listening, and are curious.

None of them at my table asked why I was eating so little. I ate slow, and enjoyed my "first meal" out with strangers.

Good for you. I am glad it went so well.

That's so cool Tiff! You are very brave to tell people like that. I am always afraid of

negative comments so I never told anyone.

Congrats Tiff - that is great -- I don't even worry about what anyone thinks about what I am eating - I eat what I can and when I'm done, I'm done. Generally no one has even asked.

Congratulations Tiffy, on another milestone! I am so glad you are doing well!

Tiff, you are doing fabulous!

Good for you Tiff. I'm glad that you are well enough now to get out of the house and do some fun things.

ditto what Judy said. I am happy you had some time for yourself and enjoyed it