My name is Bob! I have been struggling with my weight and diabetes for years and I have been debating the lap band surgery for awhile, I want to start the process but my Dr is not on board with me having surgery. I don't know what to do. Anyone have suggestions?

What is the reason your doctor is not on board about your surgery? What is your weight right now? If you feel you need to do this then find another doctor who would be. What is your medical history we can't help you if you don't tell us more details.

My name is Bob! I have been struggling with my weight and diabetes for years and I have been debating the lap band surgery for awhile' date=' I want to start the process but my Dr is not on board with me having surgery. I don't know what to do. Anyone have suggestions?[/quote']

Hi Bob, I haven't actually had it done yet. I do have my appt to see the surgeon in a couple of weeks. I guess you need to try and understand his reasons then weigh them up against your own. I also have struggled with my weight for all that I can remember. I told family and a few friends about 12 months ago that I was thinking about it and they talked me out of it. Thinking it was a drastic move that I didn't need it. That some more exercise and healthier smaller meals would help!! ( hmmmm why didn't I think of that?? Lol ) I feel like I've tried everything that's why I'm thinking of lap band. I'm now wishing I hadn't listened to them as I could have been well on my way with it. I'm now going ahead with it and not telling them. . I have seen how it can change your life and I'm ready and willing to take the challenge and new life style on. ( given my surgeon in on board. ) I hope that you make the decision for you!! Maybe you could get opinion from another doctor? You are the one that needs to be happy!! It's your life.. You have the right to be happy. Good Luck!

It took me a whole year from my original consultation to decide to do this. I am very pleased with the way things are going.

My friends and relatives also tried to talk me out of it last year. When I finally decided in September that I was going to do it I only told a couple of people and told them straight out if they werent going to be supportive then I didnt need them in my life. I know it was harsh but I figured it was time to look after me for a change. They are still in my life and are being as supportive as they can. I appreciate their efforts.

Let us know what you decide.

What is the reason your doctor is not on board about your surgery? What is your weight right now? If you feel you need to do this then find another doctor who would be. What is your medical history we can't help you if you don't tell us more details.

i agree totally, second opinions are good.