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After nearly losing 60 pounds, I thought I should start dating again. I just started talking to this one guy. He knows I'm trying to lose weight and he knows I've lost 60 pounds. But he really doesn't know how. Luckily are first "date" was getting coffee. I'm sure we'll go on a dinner date soon. And, of course, there is always that possibility of getting stuck.

Anyway, I would like to know when and how I should tell him. I mean it's really not that serious, but should he know?

Advice would be very appreciated.

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Everyone is different. Personally, I'm very open, and pretty much anyone and everyone I know or meet know that I have the Lap-Band. WHen I meet a new guy, I usually let them know before the first date. But like I said, everyone is different. Sometimes you just have to go by your gut feeling. I think that you'll know when the time is right to tell him.

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