Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Update on my love life



Recommended Posts

Well, I know at least Donali wanted to hear it so here it goes...

Last night I had my first "date" with Steve, the 31 year old Anesthesiologist...we went to Max & Erma's...

Now I know all of you are thinking...what did you eat...well I ordered a glass of Cabernet to calm my nerves...yeah...I was lit like a Christmas Tree! I also ordered a chicken salad and picked at it...didn't want to PB on my new found love...it was good...

I am pretty confident it went well...I felt I looked nice...I had on a red turtleneck sweater and my cute new SIZE 18 Tommy Jeans...I was praying like hell I would lose 50lbs yesterday but it just didn't happen...now let's pray he likes a girl with meat on her bones and my charm and wit is enough to cover up my size...

He's on-call today and off tomorrow...coincedentally I am as well...hoping we get together again...I'll keep you updated!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I would kill to fit into my cute size 18 Tommy Jeans! I'm almost there thought.

If your new found love has any single cute anesthesiologist friends tell them to give me a call! Will relocate for love!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Yay, Jennye!

Sounds like it went well, and that you were beautiful. If the guy's as smart as he should be (being an anesthesiologist, and all), he will have had a wonderful time as well.

Thanks for the update!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

The losing 50 lbs in one day made me giggle and I can so relate!!

Glad in went well and don't be shy to keep us updated:)

C

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Carmen.

What happened!

NO CALL YET AFTER OUR DATE LAST SUNDAY!

I don't get it...we had a nice time...EESH...guess what I'm giving up for the new year...MEN!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

;) :cry :D

Sometimes it takes a long time to weed through the rejects - we have to look at these kinds of episodes as them doing us a favor - otherwise we may have wasted precious more time on them.

Sorry, though...

What's that saying? "There's plenty of fish in the sea."

The trick is to not let these jerks disillusion us so that we give up on the idea of what we want. Hang in there, girl!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thanks Donali!

I'm more interested in Fish Sandwhiches than the Fish in the sea...better yet I have my Vizsla Fischer...even better...my little man!

Happy Holidays!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Four legged friends do tend to be much more loyal, loving, trainable and reliable than 3 legged friends... lol

No offense, guys!

My youngest sister and her husband were talking about their cat Beast last night. My BIL was complaining about the attention sis lavished on this animal (originally his). Sis said my BIL demanded a whole day where she did not pay one scrap of attention to Beast, not speak one word!

Sis laughed relating this story. I asked what the problem was. My BIL elaborated, "I hear her in the bedroom talking to this cat. She has this tone of adoration in her voice, and she says stuff like, 'You are SO handsome. Do you have ANY idea how handsome you are? And you are SO SOFT. ummmmmm oooooooohhhh.'" It drives him mad. ;)

lol :D I told my BIL I knew exactly how he felt, and that I will not allow my BF to have a cat for that exact same reason - he is just overcome with love when he is around cats.

Of course, I'm that way around dogs, so it would be best if we just remained petless while we're together... lol

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

sounds like a fish sandwich has better qualities than this guy!!!

they are both flaky though~

i think i'd take my dogs over him anyday. i agree with what donali said. be thankful your not waisting anytime on this guy.

hang in there! and when your need a hug you know your pooch will oblige!

;):D :D

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Aunty Mamo

      Iʻm roughly 6 weeks post-op this morning and have begun to feel like a normal human, with a normal human body again. I started introducing solid foods and pill forms of medications/supplements a couple of weeks ago and it's really amazing to eat meals with my family again, despite the fact that my portions are so much smaller than theirs. 
      I live on the island of Oʻahu and spend a lot of time in the water- for exercise, for play,  and for spiritual & mental health. The day I had my month out appointment with my surgeon, I packed all my gear in my truck, anticipating his permission to get back in the ocean. The minute I walked out of that hospital I drove straight to the shore and got in that water. Hallelujah! My appointment was at 10 am. I didn't get home until after 5 pm. 
      I'm down 31 pounds since the day of surgery and 47 since my pre-op diet began, with that typical week long stall occurring at three weeks. I'm really starting to see some changes lately- some of my clothing is too big, some fits again. The most drastic changes I notice however are in my face. I've also noticed my endurance and flexibility increasing. I was really starting to be held up physically, and I'm so grateful that I'm seeing that turn around in such short order. 
      My general disposition lately is hopeful and motivated. The only thing that bugs me on a daily basis still is the way those supplements make my house smell. So stink! But I just bought a smell proof bag online that other people use to put their pot in. My house doesn't stink anymore. 
       
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Oh yeah, something I wanted to rant about, a billing dispute that cropped up 3 months ago.
      Surgery was in August of 2023. A bill shows up for over $7,000 in January. WTF? I asks myself. I know that I jumped through all of the insurance hoops and verified this and triple checked that, as did the surgeon's office. All was set, and I paid all of the known costs before surgery.
      A looong story short, is that an assistant surgeon that was in the process of accepting money from my insurance company touched me while I was under anesthesia. That is what the bill was for. But hey, guess what? Some federal legislation was enacted last year to help patients out when they cannot consent to being touched by someone out of their insurance network. These types of bills fall under something called, "surprise billing," and you don't have to put up with it.
      https://www.cms.gov/nosurprises
      I had to make a lot of phone calls to both the surgeon's office and the insurance company and explain my rights and what the maximum out of pocket costs were that I could be liable for. Also had to remind them that it isn't my place to be taking care of all of this and that I was going to escalate things if they could not play nice with one another.
      Quick ending is that I don't have to pay that $7,000+. Advocate, advocate, advocate for yourself no matter how long it takes and learn more about this law if you are ever hit with a surprise bill.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Some days I feel like an infiltrator... I'm participating in society as a "thin" person. They have no idea that I haven't always been one of them! 🤣
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • ChunkCat

      Thank you everyone for your well wishes! I totally forgot I wrote an update here... I'm one week post op today. I gained 15 lbs in water weight overnight because they had to give me tons of fluids to bring my BP up after surgery! I stayed one night in the hospital. Everything has been fine except I seem to have picked up a bug while I was there and I've been running a low grade fever, coughing, and a sore throat. So I've been hydrating well and sleeping a ton. So far the Covid tests are negative.
      I haven't been able to advance my diet past purees. Everything I eat other than tofu makes me choke and feels like trying to swallow rocks. They warned me it would get worse before it gets better, so lets hope this is all normal. I have my follow up on Monday so we'll see. Living on shakes and soup again is not fun. I had enough of them the first time!! LOL 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Still purging all of the larger clothing. This morning, a shirt that I ADORED wearing ended up on top. Hard to let it go, but it was also hard to let go of those habits that also no longer serve my highest good. Onward and upward!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×