Jump to content

Hello! Welcome to the Largest Bariatric Surgery Community Online!

Welcome to BariatricPal.com, the largest weight loss surgery social network in the world! Our goal is to provide a unique platform for patients and potential patients alike that enables you to make informed choices involving your surgery decisions as well as providing you the support you need to meet your goals. Sign up now to access exclusive member features!

Join our community. It's free!

What Is He Thinking? Don't Read If You're Uptight!

2124
Views
Started by BandedWithLuv, Feb 02, 2012 2:29 PM
13 replies to this topic
Share this topic with all your friends:

13 replies to this topic

    BandedWithLuv

    Newbie

  • Posts: 4
  • Joined: Feb 2012
  • Gender: Female
  • Location: TEXAS
  • Surgery: LAP-BAND
  • Surgeon: Myriam Curet
  • Starting Weight: 261 lbs
  • Weight Lost: 129 lbs
  • Current Weight: 132 lbs
  • Goal Weight: 158 lbs
  • BMI: 21.3
Posted June 9, 2012 - 11:59 AM

#11
Well guys, I still don't really know whats up with this guy. I don't obsess about him like I did at first. We still talk & even hung out a couple times. If he wanted a no strings attached hook up, that would have happened by now. We have a great time when we are together and honestly I have enough going on in my life that I don't really need anything more than that right now. From the questions he asks me and the comments he makes I suspect that he might be waiting to make a move until my divorce is final. Weather that move is going to be casual or serious, I don't know or even care for that matter. Or I could be totally wrong and he just likes flirting with me either way, he is a nice distraction from my real problems.
Oh and by the way Pandora, he gave me his number right away.


    Kate rules

    Junior Guru

  • Posts: 375
  • Joined: Jun 2011
  • Gender: Female
  • Location: VA
  • Surgery: LAP-BAND
  • Surgeon: Amir Moazzez
  • Surgery Date: Jul 2011
  • Starting Weight: 205 lbs
  • Weight Lost: 73 lbs
  • Current Weight: 132 lbs
  • Goal Weight: 126 lbs
  • BMI: 23.4
Posted June 25, 2012 - 11:24 AM

#12
Next time he texts wait a few days to respond. "sorry had a lot going on. How u doing?"

If he's interested he will be intrigued as to what had you so occupied that you couldn't respond. If he's not, or is just into the game, he will take his time responding to you again.


    difa

    Bariatric Guru

  • Posts: 409
  • Joined: Dec 2011
  • Gender: Male
  • Location: MISSOURI
  • Surgery: LAP-BAND
  • Surgeon: Stanley Hoehn
  • Surgery Date: Jun 2012
  • Starting Weight: 265 lbs
  • Weight Lost: 20 lbs
  • Current Weight: 245 lbs
  • Goal Weight: 165 lbs
  • BMI: 35.2
  • My Blogs
Posted June 27, 2012 - 6:49 AM

#13

Next time he texts wait a few days to respond. "sorry had a lot going on. How u doing?"

If he's interested he will be intrigued as to what had you so occupied that you couldn't respond. If he's not, or is just into the game, he will take his time responding to you again.


Lol. I'd move on. You'd know if he was the guy for you.


    brittaney

    Advanced Member

  • Posts: 34
  • Joined: Jun 2012
  • Surgery: LAP-BAND
Posted June 30, 2012 - 8:24 PM

#14
He.is attached. Also you are more into him than you are putting out. If it was straight causal sex you would not be posting and stressing over it. Let this go. Your self esteem is low to settle for this.


0 user(s) are reading this topic

0 members, 0 guests, 0 anonymous users

Recent Status Updates

View All Updates