Sorry if this not the place but I need to know from people who have been there. A doctor's opinion is one thing but you guys have lived the life.

How long after surgery did you wait to have sex? How long is recommended? Are there some pitfalls I'm not thinking of? Nothing wild or crazy, I just want to know what to expect. Thanks for the help!

One thing is ive noticed after loosing as much weight as i have sometimes it hurts my port we always laugh about it cuz im like wait that feels good.. but no wait it doesnt hahaha

Pianoman, please log your underwear or lack thereof on the correct underwear thread. Thank you.

Sorry, but I accidently clicked on the sex thread. I thought it said, "Library."

Pianoman, please log your underwear or lack thereof on the correct underwear thread. Thank you.

Sorry, but I accidently clicked on the sex thread. I thought it said, "Library."

Yes, er... I too was looking for the er... Library, officer. (ahem)

Oh my god I need to start reading lapbandtalk.com more often. I didn't know there was a new cute *GUY* here...and I bet he even has an accent! Sorry, Andy, that I'm talking about you right in front of you. How rude!

I have been going through a drought in this department myself and am just sick and tired of it. Then again, I did it to myself by doing that "raising my standards" thing. Greeeaaattt.

Megan

2 weeks and lets get back to fun.

Tried about a week later - and realized how sore my ab muscles really were. After that we just took it easy and things have been moving along fine since.

One week here. I couldn't wait any longer.

My abs were sore too, but no regrets!

I'm so glad for this thread - 8 days has been long enough. I'm jumping my hubby tonight whether my band likes it or not!

I am hoping it wont take longer than a week to heal. My guy likes it often, and I don't want to know how he's going to behave when he's starting to get anxious.

2 weeks here but I had to keep his weight off of my stomach - I think someone else mentioned missionary but with him kneeling. My doc recommends 6 weeks but hey I'm only human.

Ok, so I did it! 8 days out and I know this is wayyyyy TMI but several positions felt just fine! I say if you feel like can do it - do it - cuz I know I feel alot better tonight!

We waited about a week.....just do what you intuition tells you. (No hanging from chandeliers, though!)

Carrie

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